Choice

[Heavenboy10]

First of all, i wanna say thank you all for reading this. Me and my gf has been living together for 2 and half years. Recently, we started not talking to each other so much because we couldn't find any interesting topic to talk. We also always argue on some small stuffs. However, i know she loves me so much, i also love her but not the love between lovers anymore. Moreover, recently i met another girl in school. We both love to laugh and share the same interest. I know i shouldn't do that to my gf but I think of the girl in my school sometimes. What should i do? Please help me!!!

[Mish]

What should i do?

I think a better question is what do you WANT to do?

1. You can find a way to start talking with your gf and forget about new girl in school

2. You can decide you're too young and this relationship won't last anyway and start a new one

So, like you correctly pointed out. You have a choice.

[xmoongirlx]

Agree with Mish, it's more about what u want to do! No one can decide for you. But remember relationships will always have UPS & DOWNS. They are not perfect, and if u say u love ur gf I don't see why u should be even considering talking to this new girl,it's like ur not trying to make an effort to make ur relationship better!

[Gigabitch]

Girlfriend, not wife. You should think seriously about the rest of your life and if you want to spend it with someone you have nothing to talk about with.

[BVSensation27]

You're right, you do have a choice. You gotta be honest with yourself and think about it. Are you happy with your current girlfriend at the moment or are you just unhappy? Is that feeling you get when you first started dating still there? If the fire is slowly dying down, I think you should probably move on from it. Why stay in a relationship when it's not going anywhere but dead ends such as arguing? But if you truely love her, you guys just need to talk and do something fun on the weekends or something -- try to reconnect with each other again and find that level of understanding.

[Heavenboy10]

it all pops out suddenly and i don't know how to handle it. It is because my gf is my first lover, so i haven't solved those kinds of problems before. For now, i think i should wait and try to reconnect with her. If it is not going so well, i think i will end it before come to the misery end. Anyway, i want to say thank you to anyone who has helped me. Thank you