I'm an idiot, lol.

[rhys87]

hi

A few months ago at my local gym/pool I saw this girl and it was sort of by accident that i noticed her..... i needed help with something and searched for the nearest worker. When i started talking i looked at her and i started to get this stupid grin on my face, lol. She seemed to be listening to me and gave me pretty intense eye contact from what i saw.

The next week she came past me as she was helping someone else and seemed to stare at me so i stared back..... probably for about 3-4 seconds but it seemed like ages, lol. she didn't really smile though :S

I saw her a couple of times after that but very briefly and she seemed to stop working at the times that i would go.

up until 2 days ago when i saw her again... she passed me a few time and once while i was swimming i looked up and saw her looking at me and then she grinned and kept working... then as i was about to leave i tried to enquire about something just to talk to her... but mayeb i said the wrong thing... i'm an idiot, lol

I'm a 20 year old guy, on the shy side and never had a gf because no girls i have seen have really interested me that much.. but this one for some reason

what should i do, lol.

[Gribble]

You should introduce yourself to her. Ask her name. And then ask if it would be all right for you to squeeze her boobies.

[rhys87]

1st part sounds good.......2nd part i'm not too sure about lol

[Gigabitch]

Oh, you can trust Gribble. He's really happy in a long-term relationship.

But I don't think you should ask outright. You should use sign-language.

[rhys87]

tried to talk today.. didn't go too well......

oh well, f!@#$ it.

[Stalin_Skaya]

I'm a 20 year old guy, on the shy side and never had a gf because no girls i have seen have really interested me that much.. but this one for some reason

what should i do, lol.

Buy prostitutes, in the long run they are cheaper than girlfriends.

[Tedel]

mm... I'd say...

1. relax, because she's not the last woman in the world.

2. relax, because the worst thing she can tell you is 'no'.

Suggestion for a line? What about something like: "You know? It's a pity I met you here, because if you weren't working now, I'd feel more free to ask if you want to go..." (for a coffee of something like that.)

[rhys87]

well.. maybe the approach didn't go as bad as i thought. Basically i went up to her when i was leaving... smiled and asked for her name. The convo stalled though and i was fidgeting with the water bottle in my hand pretty badly, lol.

Recently she has been working and hasn't gone out of her way to run from me...lol, which i thought she would do.

And today when i was leaving she saw me and seemed to distance herself from the other worker but i just walked past her.

i got no idea :S

[nuevo]

Buy prostitutes, in the long run they are cheaper than girlfriends.

long and short

[Kromat]

If you didn't have a Girlfriend yet, then just go up to her and start up a conversation, you'll never feel confident unless you practice with your first experience, take a risk and don't let the fear of being shy control your life.