How Can I Kiss Good?

[Ziggy455]

ok well every girl i have kissed say that i am inexperienced and can someone give me pointers to improve on kissing,just HOW do i kiss good enough to make a girl think i'm a great kisser

well i'll bite this down to size:

how do i become a GREAT kisser?

[Gigabitch]

Practice makes perfect. You cannot learn how to kiss without actually doing it.

[Ziggy455]

no i have kissed plently of girls but they just keep saying i can't kiss very well so thats why i cam here

[Gigabitch]

Do they have any more specific complaints?

[sine24]

well if you're really comfortable with your current relationship..maybe you could ask her for some pointers..make it into a game kinda. you teach her something, and she teaches you..it doesn't have to be embarassing that way. i must say i wasn't the best kisser to begin with, but you just get used to it and there's no right or wrong way to kiss..it just has to feel good for both parties. chemistry also helps out too..cos if you have no connection the kiss is most likely gonna suck.

[Michael6084]

well, before you actually kiss, lick her face first. that will get the girl your attention.

[Moonchild]

Well, for one, be confident about it. If you act like you don't know what you're doing, you'll come across that way even more strongly. Don't try to put your tongue in her mouth first thing for the first kiss--that's a bit much. Do not think wet and sloppy, think sweet and slow. That is, unless the situation calls for passion, and then you think passion. Do not simply mash your mouth into hers. Half of it's in your head, the other half is practice. Do what feels right rather than putting too much thought into it. Think before. Do not think during.

[Ziggy455]

thnx guys n gals,just that they say i kiss bad and i trie diferently and even when i REALLY TRY to kiss i still end up making the kiss feel bad...

[vashti]

Don't overuse the tongue. (Lots of guys do this.)
Be sure you don't have bad breath.
Don't have too much saliva in your mouth. We don't like having our mouths drooled into.
Suck gently on her lips.
Start slowly.
Don't clink teeth.

[Junket]

You can vary the speed according to the situation.

Sometimes me and my girlfriend start slow and simple and work our way up to crazy fast and passionate then tone it down to medium. It all depends.

You just gotta feel it out.

[Zenmarke]

Hmmm my girlfriend always do the tongue thing... She loves it.. though i gave her lips the bite and lick!! >_>

[Tiay]

well, at least they're telling you. It takes practise. And it's not the same for every girl, either.

the most common mistakes have already been mentioned, but i'll recap:

-> using too much tongue. ew. we don't like that. If the girl is just standing there with her mouth open while you fish around in it.. that's lame.

-> opening your mouth wider than her. That means your lip will go over hers, and that means you'll get saliva on the sensitive skin right around the lips. that sucks!

-> slobber. please be moist, not wet. and not dry either, mind you.


and secondly.. if all these girls said was "you kiss bad", they're not very helpful, are they? Mostly kissing problems can be sorted with a nice make-out session where she gives you advice, or you switch roles- she kisses like you, and you try to kiss like her, so that you can see what you might be doing wrong.

[cuddlemonster]

sever gf in the past have said that my kissing phenominal.
here are some tips.


1. kissing is communication, 'listen' to her lips and her intensity.

2. there are all kinds of reason for kisses and types: 1. im so horny kiss 2. lets make love kiss, 3. i miss you kiss 4.im glad you are mine kiss...etc...

3. time your lips and tounge with hers

4. when its the right time, grab hold of her while kissing, remember the timing and communication for greater sensitivity.

5. sometimes trace your finger tips across her lips while kissing or to the side of face.

6. talk to her ask her what she likes/hates.. open communication is the best way.

[Tedel]

^ 7. Enjoy the moment, yourself. "Planned" or "script" kisses suck.
8. Breathe slowly. I mean, don't blew her face exhaling with your nose.
9. Let her breathe at her own pace.
10. Show self-confidence, for God sake!

My .02

[Mathias]

Don't overuse the tongue. (Lots of guys do this.)
Be sure you don't have bad breath.

I can't stress these two enough. Vashti knows her shit.