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Thread: Do I Still Have a Chance with Him?

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    Do I Still Have a Chance with Him?

    I'm a freshman at college. I met a group of people i've mostly been hanging out with (7 guys and 4 girls), and they're a great group.
    The second night I got to know them, 5 of us decided to go to a showing of Knocked Up at school. The place they were showing it was very packed, and we sat at a small, but high table. It was very cold, so I didn't mind that I was sitting kind of close to Dan. He ended up putting his leg right next to mine, but, as I stated before, it was really cold, so I didn't move my leg. Later in the movie, he decides to lightly rub my leg with his hand. I ignored it the first few times, but he decided to do it harder. I looked at him at this point and gave him a small smile, but he wasn't really looking. This continued several times throughout the movie, and I eventually caught him looking while he was doing it, and I smiled at him.
    At the end of the movie, we didn't really say anything and went to bed (it was nearly 2:30 AM by this point...)

    We're good friends now, but neither of us have said anything about that night.

    He had a crush on one girl since, but it never evolved into anything, and he's given up on her.

    I find myself falling for him now. Please tell me the truth - do I have a chance with Dan? Or was this over before it began?

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    I know this will sound rather callous or a bit of a cliche' but honestly only time will tell in this situation. Think about your choices wisely before making them.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Amellaboo View Post
    I find myself falling for him now. Please tell me the truth - do I have a chance with Dan? Or was this over before it began?
    It's hard to say at this stage. But you could test the waters. Why not go out for a coffee and have a chat? See where the conversation takes you. If there is attraction on his part these causal dates will continue and maybe evolve into something more interesting
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
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    Rubbing your leg, huh? During which parts of the movie was this happening?
    Spammer Spanker

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    I see rubbing someone leg as a warning sign in a way,because i've heard that is a sign that men only want one thing.I could be wrong but thats what i heard.I've read about body language before

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    Update:
    It seems it wasn't over before it began. We hooked up tonight. I'm an incredibly shy girl - This was my first hookup, let alone first kiss. I've never had a boyfriend, though I would like one. I don't know what to do. Soon after we hooked up, his roommate came into the room, and we haven't been able to talk since.

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