Humour Vs Confidence Vs Looks

[Evigan]

Which of these are the most attractive traits for a man? If you had to choose would go for someone who could make you laugh but lacked confidence or someone who was hugely confident but had a humour bypass? could you foresake both of those qualities for someone who was just very handsome?

[Moonchild]

I rather like a balance of all three. But if I like the person enough, then less on the looks is perfectly all right. Still has to be enough for me to feel physical attraction to 'em though, you know? If I've known the person for a year and a half and still can't imagine holding his/her hand, then that's not a good sign. XD This applies to both genders, for me. But they don't have to be models for me to be attracted, no. Not close.

[Junket]

I don't know of anybody would would sincerely pick one out of the three and expect a long lasting relationship.

This questions are always dumb.

[Gigabitch]

I think the most attractive of the three is the confidence. The idea of dating a guy who had none, even if he was funny or gorgeous, is unappealing.

[anachronistic]

a balance of the three is certainly more attractive than all.

[miSSleepy]

I'd want all 3 ... but if the guy was lacking humour he wouldn't last long

[vashti]

Confidence is a prerequisite. Looks and humor are bonuses.

[Mish]

Woohoo

I can stop worrying about looking pretty now

[blue_butterfly]

To me humour is very important, it would even go before confidence (it depends how much confidence a guy lacks - is he's a wreck from this point of view, than I wouldn't want him at all). Looks get the 3rd place, not so important to me.

[pinkscorpion]

Confidence is definitely number 1.
But humor and intelligence are close runner-ups.

Hotness is nice, but as long as the dude fills all the previously mentioned squares and isn't Quasimodo or something, chances are I'll find him physically attractive whether he's really "my type" or not.

At the same time, if a guy is smokin' hot, yet has all the personality of a ham sandwich, then I'll probably think he's ugly.

[Gigabitch]

Woohoo

I can stop worrying about looking pretty now

You're pretty enough that you don't actually have to worry about it anyway, you smartass. I hope you appreciate it.

[Tedel]

I just saw this thread. Good question, Evigan. Good answers, girls.