i had this problem before. i went out with a really shy girl that would hardly to never show her affection. the thing that you have to remember is that you probably have had more relationships that she has had, or you're just better at showing affection. whichever the case is, you shouldn't jump to conclusions because you think that she doesn't like you, when she really does, but is only shy. give her time, and plenty of it, because when she feels really comfortable around you, she will probably be the one that won't want to let your hand go, and won't want you to leave. raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...