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  1. 27-08-07, 07:07 AM #1
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    Do you care about Male Friends?

    A friend of mine is constantly fighting with her boyfriend because he gets so mad when she hangs out with her male best friend. The best friend was there before they started dating so she feels like he has no right to get mad at her. I tend to agree with her but I also can understand why her boyfriend would get jealous. Guys, what are your thoughts on this?
  2. 27-08-07, 07:44 AM #2
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    Quote Originally Posted by SaraInHawaii View Post
    The best friend was there before they started dating so she feels like he has no right to get mad at her.
    He really doesn't.
  3. 27-08-07, 08:02 AM #3
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    His insecurity is gonna put her off.

    However, if he has reasonable suspect to be upset, that's a different story.
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    I don't trust other males. I side with the boyfriend. I can trust my girlfriend, but I don't trust other males.
    "Why are you an atheist?"
    "because I paid attention in science class."
  5. 27-08-07, 09:33 AM #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    I don't trust other males. I side with the boyfriend. I can trust my girlfriend, but I don't trust other males.
    We need a roll-eyes smiley.
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    So what? Even if you don't trust other males you have to trust her. If you trust her, then there's no reason to suspect something will happen. But how can any guy tell her who she can and can not be friends with especially if they are just friends and the guy was there before the BF? He can't. He has no right. If they're touchy and flirty, then yeah, be mad. Until then, relax.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cain View Post
    So what? Even if you don't trust other males you have to trust her. If you trust her, then there's no reason to suspect something will happen. But how can any guy tell her who she can and can not be friends with especially if they are just friends and the guy was there before the BF? He can't. He has no right. If they're touchy and flirty, then yeah, be mad. Until then, relax.
    Listen to Cain. He knows stuff.
  8. 27-08-07, 09:10 PM #8
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    My girlfriend has heaps of guy friends. I bet they'd all love to f-ck her. A few have professed their feelings for her before we met. I don't give a shit. I have pretty healthy self-esteem and I trust my girlfriend.

    Either your friend is dodgy or her boyfriend is insecure, or both.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    We need a roll-eyes smiley.
    We need a Shove it up your A$$ smiley.
    Last edited by Only-virgins; 28-08-07 at 05:08 AM.
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  10. 28-08-07, 05:24 AM #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    We need a Shove it up your A$$ smiley.
    It literally amazes me that we're the same age.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    It literally amazes me that we're the same age.
    Yea, Young immature children usually are easily amused and amazed.
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    Trust is everything in a relationship, maybe he's insecure due to his own actions. People tend to be insecure about things that they have done to others; and they fear that it will come back on them...
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    Most guys dont look for attractive girls simply to be friends. that just doesnt happen. i would understand to an extent why the bf would feel a little threatened because of her best male friend, but then again he shouldnt be because she is with him, not her best friend.
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    Its a true male emotion...territorialism
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    Yea, Young immature children usually are easily jealous and possessive.
    Fixed your post there, good buddy.
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