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  • The person you love is sleeping with you, but wants to be with someone else

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    So what does that mean about me?
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    I do. I guess I'm just a bitch that way.
    I wouldn't care as long as I am the one banging you. I guess I fit giga's example perfectly.
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    First one (The person you love is sleeping with you, but wants to be with someone else)
    That is the worse and it hurts alot.
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    OMG! you people are crazy. In the first option at least you are getting some ass!..........whatever. Better to have fawked and lost then to have never fawked at all. lol
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    *Sighs* I voted wrong. I picked which one I would prefer also. I didn't pick the one that was worse....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ellynn View Post
    *Sighs* I voted wrong. I picked which one I would prefer also. I didn't pick the one that was worse....
    Good. i'm glad I'm not the only one!
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    That is why the shitty option is winning.
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    this is definitely worse : The person you love is sleeping with you, but wants to be with someone else.

    ive done this exact thing to someone so i would know how it feels like for the other person.

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    I'd want the chick I love to be sleeping with the other guy so long as she didn't enjoy it and didn't do anal hahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    I had a theory, and you've already proven it to be wrong. I thought men would care more about the actual, physical event and women would care more about the emotional desire, not caring quite as much about where the guy actually was as much as where his heart was.
    Well your theory is not 100% true, as I consider both equally worse.

    First off lets assume the girl I love in both situations loves me back as well.

    For the first situation I be piss/mad I feel I be being used for her physical needs for the most part. I will end the relationship right there and then if I learned that this is more than just a small crush and my girlfriend has acted on it in someway. In the second situation that is plain out cheating and the girlfriend will be kicked to the curb pronto.

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    both are bad, but she's asking you to choose. That's the whole f-cking point of the hypothetical!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II View Post
    both are bad, but she's asking you to choose. That's the whole f-cking point of the hypothetical!
    No shit, its not like I can't reading or anything. I will pretty much weight both equally in my mind. Hence I choose both and not one.

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    So you want the woman you love to be f-cking another guy and be in love with that guy? As long as she's happy and all that?

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    No. If my girlfriend was ****ing another guy I will end the relationship right there and then.

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    Both options are bad enough. But the second one (which I've chosen) gives at least some hope for a happy-end.

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