Nuttybuddy - you have misread Giga. While her post may have seemed cryptic to you, she is NEVER callous. In fact, it would be fair to say that she is one of the least callous people posting on this board. I am waaaayyyyy more callous. People who have been here for any length of time adore giga AND her good advice, and were unanimously pleased she was made moderator.
Aly - I know and understand why you are upset with your friend. I would feel awful if I were you. However, if you want to try to keep her as a friend (and it isn't clear that you should), you may try to look at this from her point of view: you two were finished, and he has a right to move on. They may end up being a good match.
Take pleasure in knowing that people usually reap what they sow. I know someone who did something similar to her *sister*. She ended up marrying her sister's ex-boyfriend, and she was miserable for 10 years, and ended up divorcing him. He still makes her miserable every chance he gets over child-related issues.
How recently did you break up with this guy? How long have you been friends with this girl? Does she have any history of being so inconsiderate, either to you or to other people?
Last edited by vashti; 20-08-07 at 11:29 PM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?