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    older women - good or bad?

    been having a fling with a MUCH younger guy - don't wanna shock you with the details of how much younger i adore him, we're close but not committed in any way - neither of us want that. was just wondering if any of you have walked the same path, and what your lasting impressions of the experience are? he's into it when he's into it, and not when he's not - all normal and understandable - we put it all down to plain old lust. what you say?

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    Damn! You could at least tell us the age difference! also, I know a couple of guys on this forum would appreciate knowing how he found you.

    BTW - you should have made your screen name "Mrs. Robinson".
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    ok, confession time - i'm mid thirties, he's still in his teens

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    When you say teens do you mean eighteen or nineteen? Just how young is this guy?
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    Please tell us that he is at least 18, or that you are serving your prison time.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leighfie View Post
    ok, confession time - i'm mid thirties, he's still in his teens
    You mother****ing perv. Stop screwing young guys you old hag!
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    you know you're wrong.

    that's why you started this thread.

    damn lady find someone your own age.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Maybe if he was 19 and you were a younger looking 33 year old. But I personally wouldn't want anyone older than probably 22 and I'm 18, just to give you an idea. I'd say both of you are pretty sick though.

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    if he's legal and nobody is getting hurt.. heck why not? seems to be a common fantasy.

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    And why would a 20 year old date a 35 year old? Doesn't make sense. Either the guy's retarded, or he's visually impaired.
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    Been there...still there...

    If it's a fling, go for it.. Enjoy. Younger guys are lots of fun.

    Since my first separation, I only date younger men. I almost got married to one who was 12 years younger... My last fling was 31 years younger... I know it's a huge gap... just this week I had sex with a 25 yr old... I am 55.

    I love younger guys... To be honest for the last 5 years, I had more guys in their 20s than any other ages.

    Go for it! NO need to apologize as long as he's of legal age.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jimmy1218 View Post
    And why would a 20 year old date a 35 year old? Doesn't make sense. Either the guy's retarded, or he's visually impaired.
    Not *all* women in their 30's are unattractive, little boy.

    MissDy - how is it you go about meeting 25 year olds at your age? And how do you express your interest?
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    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I've seen some really hot 30 year olds before I would have been more than happy to mess around with. I guess if it's just a fling type of thing no big deal. To be honest, it's really nice seeing the age difference working the other way for once.

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    Umm

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    Not *all* women in their 30's are unattractive, little boy.

    MissDy - how is it you go about meeting 25 year olds at your age? And how do you express your interest?
    The one I am currently seeing, I met through phone chat lines (ex Lavalife)...

    The youngest (23 years old) I met him last January while on vacation in Cancun. That is, by far, the most beautiful guy I've had... he was a real 'trophy'... I still 'replay' my vacation with him in my mind. it was amazing.

    But mostly, through Internet or phone chat lines. Also one time, in a city bus to work, or at work.... they're everywhere. LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Dy View Post
    The one I am currently seeing, I met through phone chat lines (ex Lavalife)...

    The youngest (23 years old) I met him last January while on vacation in Cancun. That is, by far, the most beautiful guy I've had... he was a real 'trophy'... I still 'replay' my vacation with him in my mind. it was amazing.

    But mostly, through Internet or phone chat lines. Also one time, in a city bus to work, or at work.... they're everywhere. LOL
    Wow, you must be hot stuff.

    Do they approach you (in public) or do you approach them?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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