Originally Posted by
celestie_al
Me and my bf are 18 years old and we are preparing for our final exam b4 entrance to university. My bf is a pretty mature guy, trying to balance his studies, outside activities...and me. We've been physically intimate, but never had sex. Everytime we are both alone, he cannot resist giving me a hug and a kiss. Once, he touched my boobs, then he said he became uncomfortable, because it was so dangerously close and it might lead to sex (We believe in sex within marriage only). But I didnt want him to stop. A week later, he tried to avoid touching, but I told him it was really alright, because I trust him too much. And so, he touched me all over, my boobs, my legs and every part except the private area (which i didn't allow him to touch anyway). After the whole incident, he felt a pang of guilt because of where the relationship is going, and with the final exam in view, he was getting less focused because he's constantly thinking about me. What should I do? Should I continue to see him? Its really so hard not to because we like each other so much.
If you are intent on remaining virgins, you should stop with all the touching. The high school choir teacher also advises that the girls not allow any "laying down kissing".
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?