Originally Posted by
Tiay
I have four things to say:
1. Liek, pleeze learn too spell and use grammar rite. it's hurting my eyes.
2. To quote Dexter: "it has to be right, for both of us: or it wont be right for either of us" so if it isn't right for her, then it can't right for you. Why don't you just explain this to her?
3. Steve; no, she didn't just decide that her virginity doesn't mean shit to her. It's one thing to realise that virginity is not, in fact, some sort of holy grail. But I have yet to hear of a female virgin who would say "oh, well, i'm not ready to have sex.. **** it, I'll do it anyway". Maybe she's just sick of having the elephant named 'sex' in the room, wants it to go away.
4. Lilwings right. Let the lady make the first move.
I agree, only because she has so recently been holding her virginity up on a pedastal, I don't think I'd be anxious to do it with her any time soon, even if she initiates. She sounds like the type who will burst into tears immediately afterwards.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?