Wanting Oral

[random1]

how can u ask ur bf to give u oral without asking him directly? any suggestions? thank you.

[anachronistic]

you have to tell him directly. he can't read your mind.

oh, and most of us guys want to give oral.

[vashti]

Grab his head and push it down there. Isn't that what guys have been doing to girls for ages? He would certainly understand your meaning.

[anachronistic]

^^ most general ****ing statement i've heard all day.

i don't do that to women and if one did that to me, i'm talking an instant breakup.

[LoveTwist]

Well you could use alternative words if you don't want to ask for oral sex directly-

Eg ask him to -- "go down on you" , "eat you out" , "muff dive" , "munch your carpet" , "give you cunnilingus" , "lick your pussy" , "go down town" , "munch your muffin"
.... getting more and more obscure

So you could ask him to do one of those or any other number of bizarre phrasings people use to refer to the act these days.... crazy...

[Tiay]

just say it directly. As long as you're returning the favour, there's no reason why you can't just ask for it! I sure did.

[Charlie Boy II]

Some guys don't like to eat pussy. Thems the breaks. Can't you just get your dog to do it? Douche with some Mighty Dog Liver and Jelly and he'll keep going all through Grey's Anatomy without breaking for air.

[bluesummer]

Guys who don't like to go down are selfish bastards. Any guy that said that to me would be insta-dumped. I wouldn't want to force him to do something he wasn't into. I'm not into going down on someone who 'doesn't like' returning the favor.

PS Charlie Boy that made me feel slightly sick. Getting off from your dog? EW.

[vashti]

Charlieboy is back to being himself.

[Charlie Boy II]

PS Charlie Boy that made me feel slightly sick. Getting off from your dog? EW.

A tongue, is a tongue, is a tongue bluesummer. Don't be such a snob.

p.s. Except for a cat's tongue. Keep the cat away - its sandpaper tongue will leave your "flower" looking like it's just been in a motorbike accident sans leather.

[Gribble]

Just tell him. If he's reluctant ease him into it. It's an acquired taste. If he flat out refuses to even try it then flat out refuse to give him sex of any kind. See how long he lasts.

[random1]

The thing is that I rejected a few times before. As a result, will it be weird if I said that I want oral?

[Gigabitch]

Give him a shy little smile and tell him you think you might have changed your mind about something. If he's been turned down in the past, he might have been waiting for you to let him know when you were ready.

He'll be pleased, not pissed. Make sure you show your appreciation, too, even if it doesn't make you orgasm. You want to encourage him to keep trying.