please answer this..

[XxWestside805xX]

Ladies, how many times a day should a boyfriend call his girlfriend if she lives 2 hours away???

[Ellynn]

Well it depends. Can you afford to call her a lot?

Personally, I say a few times a week would suffice. Honestly, don't you run out of things to talk about if you talk several times a day? (Especially living that far from each other?) Right now Im kinda in a long distance thing (he lives 3 hrs away) and we find talking on the internet a few times a week to be the best and cheapest way to go. Also have voice and webcams helps also. So, its almost like in person.....and A LOT cheaper! Plus, you can see each other and have some fun...if you know what I mean

I don't know, thats just me. I'm actually pretty busy in my daily life as it is....so that works the best for us.

[Gribble]

Times a day??? How many times a week would be a saner question, I think.

[XxWestside805xX]

we used to do the web cam thing and we would have lots of fun with it but we have already had sex plenty of times so that got boring and we usually talk on the phone not the internet. but well how many times a week then??

[Gigabitch]

I still stand by once a day. I am in an LDR. Once a day is perfect- regular, not creepy.

[XxWestside805xX]

whats an LDR if i might ask??

[Gigabitch]

Long Distance Relationship

[XxWestside805xX]

wow i feel like a moron. So once a day. anyone think once a day isnt enough??

[General Mac®]

OK i know this is for the ladies to answer but i PERSONALLY say, limit the the phone calls to 3 times a week, adds the I MISS YOU part into it which i think is lacking in most relationships, people seem to have time for 4 hour conversation over this technology rather than set up a meet or do something that makes money.

[clynn]

once a day or every other day

[Ellynn]

once a day or every other day

Yeah thats the max. More then that, you probably would creep the woman out.

And my LDR is a former guy I dated. We DIDN'T have sex(at least not with each other)....so now of course we are both curious and got that sexual tension building up.
We talk on the phone too occasionally too. I suppose whatever works. But, if a guy called me multiple times a day, I would FEEL smothered! Its cool at first, but gets OLD really fast. It would make me want to tell him to "GET A LIFE!" or something along those lines..

[General Mac®]

OK heres another question. 4years in a relationship, both young and in love. Shes the Aggressor when it comes to calling, hes not so keen on talking 5 to 8 times a day but doesnt wanna hurt her feelings...how many times should one talk after that long together??

[lamarthe]

Is this a serious question? That's loads of talking. Especially after 4 years Needs a very drastic cut down. One solid chat a day if they are away from each other most of the time combined with some fine sms-ing. But if they are also together most days then really some fine sms-ing with the occasional unplanned call should be more than enough. This is really a hard one to answer...When do you have time to do anything else?

[Gribble]

Aren't you the 20 year old who has a 30 year old girlfriend? And you've been with her four years?

[vashti]

I am with the General. 3 or 4x a week is enough phone contact for me.