it hurts...

[XxWestside805xX]

my girlfriend is 30 and i am 20. we live 2 hours away from eachother. we were so in love when we first met. we would talk on the phone all day everyday for about a month. our phone bills were both over 700$ at one point. she has had 1 love in her life and he broke her. he cheated on her constantly and he treated her like shit. but now what he did to her is taking a toll on our relationship. We have talked about marriage and we have talked about kids. We have promised eachother that we will be together 4ever and ever. but she no longer likes to talk on the phone because she says that she has always had a hatred for the phone. she tells me that im smothering her by calling her so much. we argue over the littlest things and i cant stand it anymore. she told me today that she needs a break just so that she can think things over and so that she can miss me. idk what to do!! i love her so much!! she is on my mind constantly. idk what to do!

[misombra]

she's too old for you. find someone your own age.

[The Great OV!!!]

my girlfriend is 30 and i am 20.

That's the perfect age difference! omg!...for sex at least.

[XxWestside805xX]

its not even about the sex. i just feel like i need her in my life. i cant picture my life without her.

[disturbed_23]

just wait it out buddy. sooner or later she will realize she misses u and then u guys will go back out. and the relationship will be stronger then ever

[Tigger_]

i know what you're going through, the waiting period can be horrible... u just begin to think that everything you've done (even the nice things) were all just so horrible... lol, and you constantly want to know what she's thinking,

but you just have to wait it out, give her space (its the hardest thing, but you've got to respect her wishes)...

i wouldnt recommend that you cut contact completely.. talk to her every few days, ask her about her day... surprise her a little, do something spontaneous that she would think about even when she's alone... make her laugh,

if she's sensible, she'll know whats right for her... and always respect her wishes, you wont be happy if she's not happy with you..

[XxWestside805xX]

if i get her back, what is a healthy amount to be calling her a day??

[vashti]

I would think that every day would be excessive, but I guess that is a matter of individual taste.

Anyway, she is too old for you. Find someone your own age.

[XxWestside805xX]

the thing is she doesnt act her age.

[General Mac®]

You my fellow friend need to STOP the relationship before major emotional disaster for you, remember she is older, more experienced and more clued up about the love game. You are fighting reality which will result in pain. I know the sex must be on fire but man. Bounce or get bounced

[misombra]

the thing is she doesnt act her age.

obviously.

[XxWestside805xX]

Damn dude telling it as it is huh?? alright.

[Gribble]

If some girl called me 5-10 times a day I think I'd go to her house and strangle her with the phone cord.

[Gigabitch]

If I were calling you 5-10 times a day, I would welcome the mercy.

[Gribble]

You have shattered my fragile self-esteem.