Always sore downstairs, want it to stop

[Galura]

Always sore downstairs, want it to stop

I get sore most the time downstairs after love making.
I get fricton burn, but I also regularly get urinary tract infections.
This has seriously depleated my sex drive.

This has not been the case with other partners. Only my current partner.

Contributing factors I can think of are:
* He is well endowed
* His privates usually are a bit smelly. I'm scared that his smelly privates probably carry bacteria that can cause urinary tract infections. I try to tell him to wash, but I also get worried of offending him.
* He likes my behind as well and I always tell him to be careful not to transfer bacteria from my behind to my front (as this causes urinary tract infections).

We are currently trying to be as hygenic as possible, but I still get sore.

I want to feel good after sex, not worry. This has depleated my sex drive.

Has this happened to anyone else?
Any advice?

[vashti]

You need to worry a little less about hurting his feelings and a little more about your health. If he smells, it is because he is covered with bacteria, and he needs to shower. Offer to take one with him if you think it would help. You can even soap up his penis for him which he would probably enjoy.

NEVER have anal sex followed by vaginal sex without changing condoms.

It also sounds like you aren't properly lubricated. If you aren't aroused enough to produce your own natural lubrication, then you need to use something. Friction and soreness indicate tissue damage, which leaves you more suseptible to infection.

If you are taking birth control pills, they may be playing a role in your decreased ability to lubricate properly and in your diminished sex drive. I am not telling you to NOT practice birth control, but rather that you might want to check this out with your doctor. Also, I hope you continue using condoms.

[The Great OV!!!]

* He is well endowed
* His privates usually are a bit smelly. I'm scared that his smelly privates probably carry bacteria that can cause urinary tract infections. I try to tell him to wash, but I also get worried of offending him.
* He likes my behind as well and I always tell him to be careful not to transfer bacteria from my behind to my front (as this causes urinary tract infections).

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[Gigabitch]

I've read this thread a couple of times now, Galura, and every time it gives me the willies, pun totally intended. That boy has a dirty downstairs. Is your vagina not more important to you than his feelings?

I would never let a man with a smelly crotch near Hello Kitty. Never.

[misombra]

ew he needs to wash himself. those infections and irritations can lead to much worse things. if he's offended then tell him to go give some other girl his cooties.

[Charlie Boy]

you and your boyfriend both sound riddled. Nothing to be done about it at this stage. The best thing you can do is take up smoking in the hopes of dulling your palate and sense of smell you filthy, flithy girl.