It really depends on a guy you're trying to woo. Actually I never really have to do much, and I prefer to be naturally sexy and smart of course. It usually happens so that the guy is the one trying to flirt. However if I see I a guy I (like a classmate but not a total stranger) would just come up to him or sit at his table and ask something. Trick is DON'T try to talk about classes, homework, or anything that has to do with whatever activity you're both involved in - first of all that's SO tacky, secondly, an insecure guy might think you're not really interested in him, but in whatever you're asking him about. Just come up to him, smile, and say something innocent and friendly like "hey there, I've noticed you around" and then add something like "you've great ---" or "you look like ---" or just something nice, just don't be too pushy. And finally don't spend too much time with him once you've managed to come up to him. Ask a few questions, giggle a little bit and leave as quickly and confidently as you came up to him. Make sure you're the first one who walks away (unless you're both very interested, obviously). Just don't make up stupid and obvious excuses for starting a conversation, be honest, he'll appreciate that.
As to the art of seduction. Well, that's pretty easy, just make sure you're relaxed and in a good mood (another attractive quality). Sit up straight cuving your back so that he can take a glimpse of those sexy dimples above your butt (but not the butt crack! gross), look straight into his eyes with a smile on your face, caress your legs a little bit...oh you know it all.
Some major DON'Ts:
- DON'T boast about all the guys that are supposedly in love with you and how popular and pretty you are in general (Desperate Woman Syndrome, also Attention Whore)
- DON'T say bad things about people. You want to leave a pleasant impression on him, right? If you constantly bitch he might not want to hang out with you next time he's got spare time, instead he'll call that one girl who is always nice and friendly.
- Don't wear too much lipstick or foundation (or powder - NO to powder!). He wants to see a naturally beautiful girl, so that he won't be sweating about waking up with you one day and seeing your face without make-up.
- Don't wear trashy jewelry or outfits. NO plastic earrings or trashy acsessories in neon colors! Don't wear too much jewelry at all times (like rings on top of one another). Some guys don't even like jewelry that's not pure silver (like hoop earrings).
- DON'T wear shoes with really thick heels, or worse off chunks!
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