Update:Help me Analyze my love situation

[windycity]

Update: Thank you guys for everything! Everyone in this forum have been so helpful giving me suggestions and advice. Ellynn & THE REST: Today, I brought him lunch (can you believe my gutsy attitude?) I went to his house, we talked for a little bit (about work not relationships). His house was a big mess!!! It was kind of a turn-off, and you're right; he's not that all great! I think my feelings is sliding down a bit, BUT! I think he's starting to get hooked. He asked me, can you remember how to get to my house again? And he also said; I hope I'll be seeing you more! He text me on my phone and thank me for the lunch and said no one has ever brought him lunch before (HA!HA!). Let the good times roll!! One thing I learned about this situation is DON'T BE AFRAID TO TAKE A CHANCE even if it looks like a hopeless situation; you never know until you try.

[Gigabitch]

You're rocking his world. Can you maintain this position of control? It sounds like he's really getting into it.

[Mathias]

Good for you!

But the feelings are sliding, huh? Make sure you pay attention to that.

[windycity]

I'll try to make smart decisions and will consult you as much as possible. Gigabitch, thanks again!

You're rocking his world. Can you maintain this position of control? It sounds like he's really getting into it.

[Ellynn]

Hey good for you! At least you are finding out instead of sitting back and wondering what if? That takes guts.

Oh yeah, and a majority of men are slobs... Thats normal....