okay so I have a problem and its with my best friend.
Well my best friend is a very, very flirtatious person sometimes I think she does it just for fun or maybe it’s just her nature but she knows what she’s doing and she thinks its funny. Every guy she talks to or I talk to, she flirts with him sexually. She even does it with my boyfriends and to people she knows I’m really interested in. For some reason it just doesn’t feel right not to introduce them to her it’s almost a thing now where I introduce them to her just to see what they'll do and they always do the same thing.
She lives in a diff state than I do at this moment because of family problems so I can only talk to her on the phone at this time and point that’s the reason I introduce them to the people and she does it over the phone. Sometimes she will end up talking to my boyfriends and somehow gets them talking about there problems and secrets and holds it above my head in some situations.
Every time something happens she always has another side to the story and knows something I don’t know about someone close to me. I know people keep telling me not to be her friend but its hard to do that because I’ve confronted her about it and she comes off all innocent so I can't have any reason not to be her friend because from what she's telling me its the guys flirting with her. But then the guys tell me it’s her who’s coming on to them. I’ve even went as far as being on the phone with the guys and her not knowing it and she brings sexual things up and stuff and as soon as she’s going to say it she says oh I know she’s on the phone like she doesn’t want me to hear (this has happened on plenty of occasions) so I know something is up.
I just don’t know if she’s doing it on purpose or if she is just an attention whore. I would really love to know should I get her back and get revenge (I sure would love that) or what should I do to fix this problem? Is it me? Is it her? Or is it the guys?
Please let me know. I’m not going to feel satisfied until I get revenge. I know I shouldn’t hang with her it just doesn’t feel right because I don’t have a reason to not hang around her. I need some guys’ advice on some flirting tips or some sarcastic things to say that will mess her head up!
I’m also aware of two wrongs don’t make a right but I’ve been hurt too much and my ego is 0 so I need to show her something.