mmm i do have female friends, but they are not 'good' friends, they are just very normal friends. If i do get any closer with my female friends, very often feelings will develop and its either i'm interested or they're interested in me...and if the other party dont reciprocate, the friendship dissolves. so thats why i say there are no good and long friendships btw a guy and a girl. or okok think i may be too sweeping here. It is HARD to maintain a pure good platonic friendship. Think that sounds better.