when you are angry at your SO

[anachronistic]

when you are angry at your significant other, for whatever reason, how do you react? do you ignore her? do you confront her? do you treat her like shit? what do you do?

[vashti]

It kind of depends on the circumstances, but generally I withdraw.

[Junket]

Take 'er head on and then remove myself from the situation, organize my thoughts then go back in with an apology/explanation, or some kind of resolve.

Of all my team mates I fought with Ames the most.

A bit ironic I think.

But I used that kind of conflict resolution with everybody.

[Gigabitch]

I sulk. I'm not proud of this, but there's no point in denying it.

[King Zarathu]

It doesn't really affect me too much. I just think to myself, "She is just being a dramatic female. Do something with your time so you don't think about it while she gets pissy. This does, in fact, make you a superior King." And that's pretty much what happens these days!

[EDIT]
That only happens with females I'm not emotionally attached to.

[Gribble]

I say the the most awful, hurtful, downright nastiest thing that comes to mind. I'm damn good at it, too. Luckily it takes a lot to piss me off. Then again, that's probably why I'm so vicious. I bottle everything up, then it all rushes out in a torrent.

[Junket]

I say the the most awful, hurtful, downright nastiest thing that comes to mind. I'm damn good at it, too. Luckily it takes a lot to piss me off. Then again, that's probably why I'm so vicious. I bottle everything up, then it all rushes out in a torrent.

My mother taught me to hit below the belt.

I'm really good at it.

But I choose not to go that route anymore.

It's not good for relationships of any sort.

[Mathias]

I usually take a couple hours, calm my ass down, then talk to her. Sometimes it works, sometimes not.

[mydatingplaces]

First i will ignore her, then i will let the both of us calm down a bit, and then we have a big and long discussion

[jurupa]

My mother taught me to hit below the belt.

I'm really good at it.

But I choose not to go that route anymore.

It's not good for relationships of any sort.

My dad is even worse than that. He can tear you up emotionally and psychologically in a matter of minutes. I don't know if he can still can do this as he has not done it for some years, but I know how to basically do it which means he still does. I only use it when I have no other choice and lucky that has only been a couple of times when I got pissed off by girls.

[Gigabitch]

Being hateful ultimately hurts yourself more than anyone else, it really does.

[Gribble]

Yes, it totally does.

[Junket]

Yeah, but there's nothing like the sick pleasure of saying something, that one thing that can make a person feel so absolutely horrible about themselves. That one thing that will humiliate them in front of everybody. That sick and evil sinister pleasure of victory over the expense of another.

Hate helps drive you, fills your blood with tainted adrenaline, a quick fix to strength, a solution that only causes more problems. Gives you focus, meaning, an obstacle to conquer, a target to destroy.

You become the judge, the jury, the executioner.

Lucifer's mask, his vehicle, his hand.

You are justified, you are the oppressed, toppling a tyranny.

Smile.

Blind, you are malice afloat with angel's wings.

[Gigabitch]

I've been like this in the past, Frasbee. I've eviscerated people. I honestly believe it was at some cost to me that I didn't see until much later. Yes, it's exhilirating, but it's bad for you.

[Junket]

Yes, it's exhilirating, but it's bad for you.

That's exactly the message I was trying to express through that. It's very easy to fall into a cycle of hate and anger.

That kind of rage is merely a mask one wears to avoid pain.

Also true, that's what I meant when referring to the obstacle, target, being the judge, feeling justified. You project your weakness unto others and condemn them for it. They become a scapegoat.