man & pornography?

[one_love_922]

what do you ladies think about your man looking at porn in general?

[vashti]

It depends on the extent of his interest. Occassional usage doesn't bother me, but if it were habitual, I wouldn't like it.

[King Zarathu]

Typically, they don't care.

[one_love_922]

what about when you are not around?

[Gigabitch]

I don't usually attract guys who are fascinated by porn. They aren't opposed, but not particularly interested, either, so I don't have this problem. Now that I think about it, I think it might bother me if my bf spent a lot of time looking at porn, especially if he was looking at really nasty shit like beastiality or non-consentual stuff.

I'd lock him in the basement.

[sazzya1987]

what do you ladies think about your man looking at porn in general?

It does not bother me at all especially if I was not around and he needed to 'let himself go'. Besides I think it is better for him to look at porn rather than have sex with the next door neighbour...

[Sami09]

i myself think its ok if you want to watch porn a bit. But everyday or every other day is just plain weird. What do you guys think is better if guys watch porn or if they go to strip clubs?

[BFTrick]

im a guy. but if i was a girl i wouldnt have a problem with porn. But i would have a problem with strip joints. I wouldnt allow it.

[eyedin]

i myself think its ok if you want to watch porn a bit. But everyday or every other day is just plain weird. What do you guys think is better if guys watch porn or if they go to strip clubs?

hahaha every other day is weird??? you dont know us guys that well do you?

for a single man even more than once a day is not weird according to us.
but if i dont have sex with my girl for more than 3 days, i usually resort to porn. and its not just for my selfish needs, i would perform better with her if i dont go fully loaded for the next time.

[vashti]

Every other day IS excessive in my world. Sami - strip joints are way worse than porn. If my man was going more than once every blue moon (such as the occassional bachelor party), there would definitely be a problem.

[one_love_922]

strips clubs is worse than porn to me also. i would not be able to deal with my man going to one. id rather him look at all the porn he wanted.

[vashti]

strips clubs is worse than porn to me also. i would not be able to deal with my man going to one. id rather him look at all the porn he wanted.

If you don't mind him using it, then why are you questioning it?

[Henry123]

I dont think many women understand the effects of Testosterone. Usually when women hit their 40's they begin to feel and understand what it feels like.

I remember watching some Discovery show where a women researcher had rubbed some testosterone ointment on herself and testify that she could now understand high powerful the effects are and dont blame the way guys behave the way they do. The feelings are quite persistent.


(source: [url]http://kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html#fantasy[/url] )
# Fantasy

# 54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
# 19% of women think about sex everyday or several times a day, 67% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 14% less than once a month (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

[vashti]

Yes Henry, but what does that have to do with whether or not one uses pornography to excess, particularly when they have a partner for sex?

And by the way, I would say 40 for women is a little late.

[Blix]

According to studies 40 is the number.

I don't watch porn daily. I barely ever want to watch it lately, thoug hI use to do it weekly (And that really was only to kill Sunday boredom). Honestly, when I do rarely think about it, it's not that tempting.

~Blix