Super Straightforwardness =]

[Lynx3]

I'm in highschool. What would a girl do if you came up to her and told her you have a crush on her straightforward? I'm friends with the girl, I talk to her in only 1 of my classes though, but we have nice conversations, and she laughs at things I say (but then again, she laughs at everything) So what if i went up to her and said it straight up. Also, please help on phrasing if this idea isnt ridiculous? I have the guts to do it.

I want outcomes, pretend you dont like me, what would you say then? or vice versa?

edit: and if she looks like she doesnt have anything to respond with, just leave

[King Zarathu]

1) She says she likes you too.
2) She says she doesn't like you.
3) She busts out into tears or pulls off some bullshit about "omfg lololollll [insert indirect assholishness here.]"

[Lynx3]

well that doesnt give me a confidence boost nor does it give me any information of which i could not have come up with myself, except for the creative #3, thanks for that. i think.
anyone else?

[King Zarathu]

well that doesnt give me a confidence boost nor does it give me any information of which i could not have come up with myself, except for the creative #3, thanks for that. i think.
anyone else?

You need to learn to be able to do this without a confidence boost.

I did the same thing tonight, I promise. I asked a girl out tonight, and I was nervous. The girl I asked out is a huge bitch, but I did it.

What is she going to do dude? Tell you to **** off and she never wants to see your face again? That's what I was facing, but I did it anyway.

You have nothing to lose. The worst that'll happen is, "lolllll i dun wana go out w/ u rofl" and that'll be the end of it.

Practice, practice, practice.

[Lynx3]

i see...that was a stupid thing of me..i really cant ask her to go to a movie and theres nothing else to do in this town..so just forget it...give it time and ill get over her

[King Zarathu]

i see...that was a stupid thing of me..i really cant ask her to go to a movie and theres nothing else to do in this town..so just forget it...give it time and ill get over her

Did you not get the point?

[Lynx3]

i got the point. **** girls. go watch porn.

[vashti]

Ugh! Don't listen to guys about how to ask out a girl. This is what you do:

You: Hey (girl's name), what would you say if I were to ask you to go out with me?


You see? Nothing to it. Now don't be a chicken; go and ask. Learning how to do this is a very important step in growing into a man. Yes, some girls will say no, but some will say yes. Dating is a numbers game; if you ask enough girls, one will say yes.

Good luck.

[Lynx3]

i am so confused. is it stupid to just blurt it out like that or not? i dont think itd be super weird, we kind of have sort of a playful relationship, but we dont flirt

[vashti]

Flirt first, and then blurt. If she acts like she is put off by your flirting, then don't ask her out. If she acts like she is enjoying it, then ask.

[King Zarathu]

yeah...blurt out, "let's go out" or something...not "I'm madly in love with you."

Hell yeah, ask her out, but don't just say "I've got a crush on you."

...

Did he literally mean to say "I've got a crush on you?"

[vashti]

I am sure even if she didn't let you kiss her, she was flattered. You probably made her night.

[vashti]

I bet she doesn't. The most outrageously gorgeous women often have a hard time getting a date because everyone assumes they aren't available.


GRR! Stop editing your posts! You make my posts look like I am responding randomly!!

[Lynx3]

haha i asked one girl what she would do if a guy did that to her, she told me she would kiss the guy,even if she doesnt like him, because it takes a lot of guts. I wouldnt care if she went to her girlfriends and made a laughing stock out of me thought, I'd feel good because I did what 98% of guys in high school cant.

edit: I wont say "Want to go out?" because thats a question implying it needs an answer, I dont want to put her on the spot, Ill say something like "I like you more than a friend" or "I have a crush on you" because it does need an answer, and if she looks a little lost, I'll give her a big smile and leave.

[King Zarathu]

edit: I wont say "Want to go out?" because thats a question implying it needs an answer

You know, I'm debating whether or not to give him my style.... I don't want everybody to start using it and then watch it get nulled.