Hugging with a height difference?

[sachi]

my ex was 10 inches taller than me and it was quite nice actually, because I'd hug him around his waist and he'd wrap me completely and place his head on my head. It felt like I was completely enveloped =)

[jurupa]

That brings up a question! I'm quite a bit taller than most of my girl/friends...when we hug, I always bend down enough so they can at least get their head past my shoulder...I imagine since my friends aren't SO's, they don't want that "completely enveloped" feeling, right?

Your right.

Let me restate that: Girls, suppose you are going to hug a friend in greeting, and your face measures up to around his rib cage. How do you want him to hug you?

I have found that it really depends on a bunch of thing, but primary it matters on the following:

- How close of friends you are.
- The current social situation (ie its formal or relax etc)
- How confrontable the girl is with your height.

But primary the two hugs that I give to girls is either around the waist and to one side, or the hug I describe in my post above. If its around the waist, I just use one arm.

[vashti]

Girls, suppose you are going to hug a friend in greeting, and your face measures up to around his rib cage. How do you want him to hug you?

I hate those fake hugs, no matter who they are coming from. Like a wimpy handshake, they tell a lot about a person. Hug with enthusiasm, or don't bother - I don't care how tall you are, and I don't care if I come to your rib cage.

[King Zarathu]

I hate those fake hugs, no matter who they are coming from. Like a wimpy handshake, they tell a lot about a person. Hug with enthusiasm, or don't bother - I don't care how tall you are, and I don't care if I come to your rib cage.

YES! I hate that! Megan did that, she would just like wrap her arms around you and kinda let them sit there without squeezing or anything. That didn't work well for me, considering I give bear hugs.

[lovesjoyajm]

+1. As long as your hug is enthusiastic and friendly, it doesn't matter where you hug. Just hug where it feels comfortable, and make it a good, firm hug. I've taught a few of my guy friends how to hug properly, as opposed to the wimpy hugs they used to give, and it's a huge improvement.

[farrfaraway]

Why don't you shrimps just bug off and let us tall girls have the tall guys? Hmmmm??

I'm not short I'm 5'9"

[farrfaraway]

Around the height of his cock, Ms. Naive.

Um, ok. i'm not that short.

[King Zarathu]

Um, ok. i'm not that short.

I was just explaining what vashti was talking about.

[jurupa]

I'm not short I'm 5'9"

Uh yes you are.