What do you LIKE about the opposite sex?

[Junket]

Intro: So as I was makin' my rounds about the forum, reading about this girl's problem with guys, and this guy's frustration with girls. I was thinkin'

What do people like about the opposite sex?

Y'know? Like, what keeps us coming back despite the frustrations, heartache and incalculable amount of stress?

I mean clearly, for most of us, none of it is ever really enough to either go gay or give up relationships all together.

So please, share with the rest of LF things that keep you comin' back, whether it's the obvious physical, or the not-so-obvious subtle behaviors.

As I am an advocate for leading by example I shall of course go first and share a few of mine...


Physically, there's few things I don't like about women. Many guys are asked the "tits or ass?" question. Well damn it, I love 'em both. Some days it's boobs, the other a nicely shaped ass. Another thing I have a weakness for are necks. There have been several occasions when a girl would walk by with her hair up and sportin' a black choker on her fully exposed neck and I would start salivating like a dog.

I cannot deny I crave physical affection, I'll day dream about somethin' as simple as caresses along the oh-so-smooth skin females are blessed with.

In terms of behavior/personality. While I do like the idea of a shy girl, if they stay shy, the relationship would become far too boring far too quickly. I like girls that are reserved but headstrong. That aren't afraid to step up to challenge, and aren't afraid to be relieved of responsibilities either.

Nothin' attracts me to a girl like banter, so long as when they know when to keep their mouth shut.

And I'll leave it at that for now.

[Mathias]

Not much right now, but I'm sure that'll change soon.

[King Zarathu]

The "love" chemical. It's that arousing feeling, the challenge of really getting her. A relationship can also satisfy curiosity.

[Junket]

The "love" chemical. It's that arousing feeling, the challenge of really getting her. A relationship can also satisfy curiosity.

I totally hear that man. I love the sort of adrenaline that comes with the pursuit. The driving uncertainty and then the euphoric relief when she succumbs to your advances.

[King Zarathu]

I totally hear that man. I love the sort of adrenaline that comes with the pursuit. The driving uncertainty and then the euphoric relief when she succumbs to your advances.

Or the hurt when she doesn't. :/

[Junket]

Or the hurt when she doesn't. :/

Yeah, but 95% of the other threads already deal with that, so lets not here.

[vashti]

Aside from the physical, I like that most men are not very emotionally complex. It balances me out. I also like when they are tall enough to make me feel little, and strong enough that I can feel safe... in other words, I like that they can make me feel more feminine.

[King Zarathu]

Aside from the physical, I like that most men are not very emotionally complex. It balances me out. I also like when they are tall enough to make me feel little, and strong enough that I can feel safe... in other words, I like that they can make me feel more feminine.

Speaking of which, vashti, height and weight (yours)?

[Junket]

Aside from the physical, I like that most men are not very emotionally complex. It balances me out. I also like when they are tall enough to make me feel little, and strong enough that I can feel safe... in other words, I like that they can make me feel more feminine.

Does any of that fit the description of your husband which we hear so little about?

Wait, are you married?

[King Zarathu]

Yeah, she's married, she just doesn't enjoy spilling about her private life anywhere other than the PM box.

It's called (in English) being a "pussy."

[Mathias]

Bah. Never mind.

[King Zarathu]

Bah. Never mind.

What happened?

[vashti]

Yeah, she's married, she just doesn't enjoy spilling about her private life anywhere other than Gigabitch's PM box.

There, I fixed your post for you.

About my height and weight, What, are you going to ask what size bra I wear next? I am a little over 5'8", but I don't know about the weight. I guess I kind of look like this:

[vashti]

You didn't really think I'd be willing to feed your fantasies, did you?

[Gigabitch]

Oh, my EFFING God! I was soooo not ready for that!

Darjeeling tea is better when it does not come out your nose.

Here I am, reading along, thinking about all of the things I really like about guys, and then Vashti shows everyone that picture of us at the beach.