First Breakup

[SWLR]

lol...She wrote "Love you" with the line through-it font?

That might get a point or two for creativity, but it's fantastically immature. What is she? 13 or something, right?

Yeah she did.

Believe it or not shes 17, nearly 18

[Mathias]

Passwords changed. I never even thought she would do that.

She just typed [s]" Love you "[/s] to me. I ignored it and said bye.

Steve's head = pretty messed up

[s] = Strikethrough

LMMFAO.

SERIOUSLY??

That's the greatest thing I've heard today.

Seriously, if that can't get you over her in like 5 seconds, nothing will. Fantastic.

[SWLR]

I went to see my senior tutor at college today, she has been concerned about my college work. I told her everything. She suggested I go see the college counciler

My Ex told me she loves me, but she doesn't want to

Rebound girl is dating someone else as from today

Damnit

[SWLR]

Erm, SHE just suggested meeting up.

Good idea? or not.

[Gigabitch]

Erm, SHE just suggested meeting up.

Good idea? or not.

NO, Steve. Knock it off. You know damn well it isn't a good idea.

[SWLR]

/rant

Seriously, this is becoming a huge mess

It's all turned around, she is making every effort to talk to me.

She texts me - I don't reply
She messages me - I don't reply

So... last night I decided to talk to her (don't shout, please)

She wants me, she said so herself, but shes also frightened that it might not work out.

I still want her.. well the old her

I'm considering taking up her offer of meeting up and talking face to face. I don't want any regrets but I also want to save me heart from being stamped on again.

/rant over

Oh by the way.. You know rebound girl? Well she cheated on her new boyfriend. Lucky escapse hey?

[Gigabitch]

You're an asshole-magnet, Steve.

[SWLR]

Oh God. Your right

[Gigabitch]

Checking on you.... how you doin'?

[lovesjoyajm]

just read this thread for the first time.

Steve, don't do it.

Make it perfectly clear, in a way that requires no feedback from her, that you don't want anything to do with her. I'd say a letter. Through the mail.

Then make sure she doesn't know any more of your passwords.

Delete her from myspace and MSN.

After the way she's behaved, you'd be a complete idiot if you got within 20 feet of her ever again. I know (at least, I hope) that you are not considering dating her again. Make sure she knows this too. Sometimes trust can be rebuilt, but I think there's every indication that in this case, it can't, because she's TRYING to hurt you.

I'd suggest a restraining order, but maybe that's too harsh...?

ETA: (Sorry this is a bit outdated. how's it all going?)

[SWLR]

I'm doing okay I think. I'm still having rough days and I wake up most mornings in a bit of an emotional mess, but I pull myself together.

I still miss her, the old her, I miss what we had, but I would never take her back now, she done too much damage, the trust could never be re-built.

Today I thought about the girl of my dreams.. and guess what.. it's not her

I'm staying strong, I will come out of this a stronger, wiser person.

Is it true, the first time is the hardest? Or is this going to happen often

[Gigabitch]

I'm doing okay I think. I'm still having rough days and I wake up most mornings in a bit of an emotional mess, but I pull myself together.

I still miss her, the old her, I miss what we had, but I would never take her back now, she done too much damage, the trust could never be re-built.

Today I thought about the girl of my dreams.. and guess what.. it's not her

I'm staying strong, I will come out of this a stronger, wiser person.

Is it true, the first time is the hardest? Or is this going to happen often

Not like this, it won't. From now on, you'll always have experience, and that will really help.

[SWLR]

I guess this is a valuable experiance, that I should, infact be grateful for (in a weird kind of way)

These last months have been the hardest days imaginable, but I'm well onto the road to recovery.

I'd like to thank you all for the support you've given me, I've learnt alot whilst being here, I think I'm going to stick around

[SWLR]

Today hasn't been so good

She text me to congratulate me on passing my driving test. (Yeah okay, fair enough)

I text back, and the conversation developed into an argument.

She says "You haven't been online in a while"
I say "Yeah well, I deleted you, and its doing me good"

(Lets just say that didn't go down too well)

She told me how my friends are annoyed at me for moaning about the whole situation.
She wanted to sort out our friendship. I told her she doesn't deserve my friendship.

Why the **** can't she leave me alone, I'm sick of it. I was getting better

[Gigabitch]

Tell her you have to moan to your friends about the situation because you want them to know how poisonous she is so they won't date her.

You have caller id, right? You're not obliged to pick up her calls, you know. Blow her off.