Creepy?

[Crackerlove]

Hi Ladies,

Say you met a man who was 15 years older than you. He tells you on the 2nd date he is separated. You ask for details. He says he lives on his own and has for 3 years and has dated a few women. You ask if the wife is aware of his dating. He says yes. You ask if she has been dating. He says "Yes, but not as successfully" "Why not?" you ask. "Well you know.. it's harder for a woman at 50." "Why is that?" you ask. "Women at 50 aren't as appealing as men. Her looks aren't what they used to be..."

He also says things things like "Your breasts are beautiful and are going to be beautiful for a long time"... "My guy friends have been telling me for years I should be dating a woman in her 30s"... "I hope I still have this body (his) when I'm 70".... "My son high-fived me when I told him how old you are"....

How would these comments make you feel? Would you date a guy who said these things?

[Gigabitch]

Of course, because I am an idiot with no self-esteem, and I want to waste my 30's on somebody who treats me like a Barbie doll with a short shelf life.

[vashti]

Oh my god, you are right giga. This is nebulachick, isn't it?

[derm]

As a guy I really think he's a dick for saying such things to your face. I mean surely you thought he was a dick for saying such things to your face? I can imagine if I said that to a lady. I'd be sure to have her drink/dinner poured all over me.

Obviously he's chuffed to be dating a younger woman who's boob's haven't dropped etc but....helloooooo you don't say things like that.

Unfortunatly I have to say that most guys would THINK the very same

[vashti]

Why on earth would any woman find a man like this desireable?

[King Zarathu]

Eurasian - IP us and tell us if she's nebula.

[AlefBet]

You don’t make any decisions only based on words. You have to feel if you want him. Everything counts - the way he looks at you, the way he says this, where and how etc.