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Thread: I don't know why but I get upset when someone takes me off there top 8/12/20

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    I don't know why but I get upset when someone takes me off there top 8/12/20

    or whatever on myspace. It is very pathetic but why does it upset me?

    This girl that I liked as a friend had me on her top 20 for a little while, but than took me off recently and I don't know why it upsets me.....

    I am just upset about it for some reason. Probably because I think she doesn't like me that much anymore. She also has my brother on her top 20. So I am a bit Jealous as well..

    What can I do to not let this bug me?

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    First question why did you put a date in the thread title? I just find this odd, but from what you said in your post I would guess that is when she remove you from her top 10 or what ever it is.

    I bet the reason why your going nuts over this is because you have become addictted to MySpace. There are reason why I am not on MySpace, and this is one. People take things like this to seriously and take them personally and create stupid and un-needed drama over such things.

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    Oh, god.

    You definitely are taking it way too seriously.

    I almost never look at what others "top friends" are.

    Seriously, it's like rating your friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Oh, god.

    You definitely are taking it way too seriously.

    I almost never look at what others "top friends" are.

    Seriously, it's like rating your friends.
    That's the whole point sadly.

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    It upsets me because I don't know why she took me off her list. I really really like her. Not as a girlfriend but as a friend. and what makes it worse that she has my older brother on her list and NOT ME!!!!

    Why would she even do it in the first place..?

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    Quote Originally Posted by David12 View Post
    It upsets me because I don't know why she took me off her list. I really really like her. Not as a girlfriend but as a friend. and what makes it worse that she has my older brother on her list and NOT ME!!!!

    Why would she even do it in the first place..?
    Maybe because she doesn't take it as seriously as you do?

    How old are you, 13?

    You need to find a real friend.

    Sorry, but myspace friends don't count as friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Maybe because she doesn't take it as seriously as you do?

    How old are you, 13?

    You need to find a real friend.

    Sorry, but myspace friends don't count as friends.
    Sadly a lot of people do consider MySpace friends as friends. I wish MySpace would die its so freaking annoying.

    Quote Originally Posted by David12 View Post
    It upsets me because I don't know why she took me off her list. I really really like her. Not as a girlfriend but as a friend. and what makes it worse that she has my older brother on her list and NOT ME!!!!

    Why would she even do it in the first place..?
    Did ya read my post? Becuase it doesn't look like it. Why you cared about this so much? It is not the end of the world. But like Frasbee I do wonder how old you are becuase you do sound like 13.

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    Dude, why do girls your age do ANYTHING? I remember being that young- I would do things like this because I was bored and dying for attention. Teenage girls need attention like SUV's need gas- constantly. She probably did it to mess with you.

    Stop letting teenage girls determine your emotional state.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jurupa View Post
    Sadly a lot of people do consider MySpace friends as friends. I wish MySpace would die its so freaking annoying.
    I only got a myspace towards the end of my AmeriCorps*NCCC year as a means to stay in contact with my team mates.

    I only have for the most part, friends and relatives on it.

    Actually, yeah, only friends and relatives.

    My profile is kept private, so you have to be on my list to see it.

    Hell, if there's a person I know, but never talk to, like old acquantinces, I won't accept their friend requests. It's not that I don't like them, but c'mon, lets be serious now, we don't ever talk, so don't be comin' on here actin' like we do. I hate fake people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    I only got a myspace towards the end of my AmeriCorps*NCCC year as a means to stay in contact with my team mates.

    I only have for the most part, friends and relatives on it.

    Actually, yeah, only friends and relatives.

    My profile is kept private, so you have to be on my list to see it.

    Hell, if there's a person I know, but never talk to, like old acquantinces, I won't accept their friend requests. It's not that I don't like them, but c'mon, lets be serious now, we don't ever talk, so don't be comin' on here actin' like we do. I hate fake people.
    The idea behind of MySpace is a good one. If MySpace was runned better and they updated it as needed I wouldn't mind it, but it so over used it has lost its point and idea. I am not saying it can be usefull to people like you where you have a list of people you actually have meet in person and keep in conact with, its the other 90% of the MySpace population that make it into a highschool affair.

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    Wow, this just seems like teenage/young adult manipulation at its finest.

    Bad idea by Myspace there.

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