Cuddling better than kissing....

[letan]

I had my first kiss last night. It was okay, until the dude started using his tongue. I thought with kissing, it will ignite your feelings for your lover? I did not feel anything at all...I felt like kisses are nothing. I actually liked the cuddling and hugging better. Just the feelin of my body close to a tight firm manly body feels better to me. Do any of you all feel like this?

[Gigabitch]

I have been kissed badly before, and yes, I understand how it would make you swear off kissing forever.

Being kissed by a good kisser will raise your body temperature, dilate your pupils, cause certain glands to begin producing pheremones and sometimes result in your blouse coming off.

Careful with this. Count your lucky stars he was a crappy kisser.

[hitch]

Cuddling has a more relaxed type of atmosphere where kissing it all depends. Kissing is either aimless and wonderful or it has an alterior motif (sex). Most people can't enjoy kissing when they're on guard wondering about what the next step is, usually with someone's tongue down their throat. If you find the right kisser, both cuddling and kissing fall into the same categorey of comfort.

[vashti]

Yeah, some guys DO have a problem with using too much tongue. Wait until you've kissed a slobber-er. Double yuck.

[Tiay]

*swoon* aww I remember my first kiss... seemed like such a big deal before-hand. yikes, where did the years go?
Didn't like tongue at first either. Just kiss without tongue to begin with. Also, when you do kiss with tongue and it's gross, stop him immediately. You can't train him if you just keep pretending it's all good. tell him what he's doing wrong (without saying the words "bad" or "wrong) and demonstrate how you'd like it to be done.

Also, while good kisses can do all kinds of wonderful things, I don't think they can really 'ignite' feelings that aren't smouldering already.

[derm]

Obviously he is a hopeless kisser

Nothing in life worse than a hopeless kisser

[letan]

Obviously he is a hopeless kisser

Nothing in life worse than a hopeless kisser

or maybe I was the hopeless kisser cuz it WAS my first time.

[Gigabitch]

or maybe I was the hopeless kisser cuz it WAS my first time.

Nope, it was all him. You're golden.

[Sami09]

i think cuddle good but kissing and have sex is great and after sex then you can cuddle yes i know you are at the stage all i am sayin is maybe he doesnt know how to kiss great yes. my bf for sure does he an amazin kissin etc

[Matthias]

I never wanna kiss
Is that strange ?
I can't image putting your tounge in somebody else his mouth..

[Junket]

I never wanna kiss
Is that strange ?
I can't image putting your tounge in somebody else his mouth..

It's one of the most spectacular things I've ever experienced.

Though, I kinda forget what it's like anymore.

But I remember thinking that at the time.

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i think cuddle good but kissing and have sex is great and after sex then you can cuddle yes i know you are at the stage all i am sayin is maybe he doesnt know how to kiss great yes. my bf for sure does he an amazin kissin etc
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You suck at sentence structure.

[Matthias]

I just wanna have a GF to hold in hard times ...
Somebody you can support you ...

[Gigabitch]

I just wanna have a GF to hold in hard times ...
Somebody you can support you ...

Well, you'd better learn how to kiss, or you'll lose that girl.

[Matthias]

Well, you'd better learn how to kiss, or you'll lose that girl.

How the hell do I learn that????
Not going to kiss with fruit or something

[letan]

He wanted to go out with me again...but I didn't return his call. I felt uncomfortable kissing him.