Advice and confused

[rleungz]

Ok; the first time I've use this.

Well, It was my first day at college today


Right, going on. I was talking to this girl before. We are well good friends and got alot in common.
We where talking about her ex-boy friend who she dump today.
After we talked abit more about it she made the comment
'I'm ready for us to have a real friendship but not at this minute'

And I was abit confused. I've periously asked for on a date but we didn't know each other good enough, which I agreed on.

So, what I was thinking to make a move like asking her out to the movies or take her for a walk like in October or November.

hmmmm
Well any advice would be good

Ric

[King Zarathu]

No. She's giving you hints to say that she doesn't want to do anything with you, why would you be a complete idiot and ask her to something else? Are you trying to get continuously rejected?

[Venacava]

Hmm, yeah she's probably doing one of two things. She's either letting you down gently and emphasising FRIENDSHIP or maybe she's being genuine in saying in time she would like to spend more time with you etc.
Either way, she said "time"...so give her a bit of time, I mean she only just broke up with her boyfriend.

[Gigabitch]

What would she think if you started dating someone else until she's ready? Is she making a reservation or something?

I think you should ask for clarification. Tell her you want to date her, but you'll take it slow. Just beware the Friend Zone.

[BlueRaven]

I'd take it easy for a while if I was you. Keep in contact with her, but don't try to force anything that isn't there. She did just come off a relationship. If you guys talk a lot or whatever, and you seem to get along well, then yeah you can try again in a month or two.

If she turns you down then, forget it.

[TAVS]

Please take a few english classes as soon as you can