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    Confidence tips

    This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
    Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?

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    Practice Practice Practice

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Practice Practice Practice
    And exactly how/what do you supose people should practise?

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    It depends what you want to be confident in. Do you want to be confident within yourself or when it comes to approaching girls/boys?
    Depends.
    But it is practice.
    To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.

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    Start with push ups.

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    Start with push ups, and then move on to interactions with strangers, like the grocery clerk or the bus driver. Start saying hi when you don't have to.

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    if somebody gives you a compliment, say thank you! a lot of people don't, they're like "oh it's nothing", etc.

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    Holy crap Giga, you're 38??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Holy crap Giga, you're 38??
    Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Did you think I could have packed all the stuff I've been through in my life into less time than that?
    That's just it though.

    As I mentioned before.

    I really don't know much about yours or Vash's past.

    Don't know what brought you to where you are today.

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    It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.

    Hmmm. Maybe you could put together a 20 questions thread with the things you most want to know about everyone here. For instance, one question could be:

    Describe your parents in three words.

    My answer would definitely NOT be "Ozzie and Harriet"

    Anyway, I'd do it myself, but I have to go now and take my barking lunatic mother out to lunch for her birthday.

    C-ya.

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    20 questions, eh?

    I don't like such formalities.

    Then again, it's not easy to talk with you guys one on one in here...

    I dunno, I might come up with somethin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.
    I love you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mahouyuki View Post
    This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
    Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?
    Be confident with yourself. Simple as.
    Live together. Die alone - [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvi_RCM3FAM[/url]

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    Just do it. Nike style.

    To be honest, I used to be really lacking in self-confidence.

    One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.

    That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.

    Mantras really do work. Just say something to prop up your ego over and over while meditating.

    Watch the positive changes! They will happen! Reality is a manifestation of belief!
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