This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?
This place has very few threads.. -_-" so..
Any tips on how to be more confdent for the shy and not-so-confident?
Practice Practice Practice
It depends what you want to be confident in. Do you want to be confident within yourself or when it comes to approaching girls/boys?
Depends.
But it is practice.
To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.
Start with push ups.
Start with push ups, and then move on to interactions with strangers, like the grocery clerk or the bus driver. Start saying hi when you don't have to.
if somebody gives you a compliment, say thank you! a lot of people don't, they're like "oh it's nothing", etc.
Holy crap Giga, you're 38??
It would be an irresponsible use of bandwidth to tell you the whole story of how I went from Bitch to Megabitch to Gigabitch.
Hmmm. Maybe you could put together a 20 questions thread with the things you most want to know about everyone here. For instance, one question could be:
Describe your parents in three words.
My answer would definitely NOT be "Ozzie and Harriet"
Anyway, I'd do it myself, but I have to go now and take my barking lunatic mother out to lunch for her birthday.
C-ya.
20 questions, eh?
I don't like such formalities.
Then again, it's not easy to talk with you guys one on one in here...
I dunno, I might come up with somethin'.
Just do it. Nike style.
To be honest, I used to be really lacking in self-confidence.
One method that worked extremely well for me, was to consistently joke about being better than everyone else.
That way, most people don't take it offensively, but then I still voice confidence.
Mantras really do work. Just say something to prop up your ego over and over while meditating.
Watch the positive changes! They will happen! Reality is a manifestation of belief!
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