Going to be picky

[nebulachic]

Ladies.. how would you interpret this yourself? You're dating a separated guy. He tells you he is falling in love with you in the 2nd month. By the 4th month he is taking steps to get divorced, he says partly due to your prompting. In the 5th month you ask when he talks about his life after divorce and having a new life partner if he ever thinks of you as that person.

He says "Of course I do! It's only natural to think of the person you're with! But I can't make any promises right now. I'm not saying I'm going to go out and try to screw every woman I see but I am going to be picky and ask a lot of questions. That's why I've been asking you a lot of questions."

Would you feel he is implying he is going to date other women as well as you once he is divorced? Also, would you feel insulted?

[vashti]

How many threads are you going to start about this? Because I am thinking this is AT LEAST the 7th one you have started.

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12385[/url]
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12660[/url]
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12960[/url]
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=13151[/url]
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=14136[/url]
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=14276[/url]

You really should get some professional help. Seriously.

[Rosebud]

Hmm..I'm glad you posted that Vash, I almost replied to this.

[Venacava]

Oh my goodness.
Stop being so bloody insecure. He sounds pretty reasonable to me, the fact is - he's going through a DIVORCE. His marriage didn't work out and it sounds to me like he doesn't want to go through another big break up, so he wants to make sure whoever he spends a lot of time with - they're going to be worth it.
If you don't trust him, then why are you even with him. Seriously.