Approach

[Freeway3137]

Well this topic probably has been hit numerous times...

Today was my first day of college and during my lunch break I went got something to eat, and then went to go sit down on the couches and to my surprise there was this REALLY hott girl sitting on the couch next to me all alone and I was like shit! She was just sitting there casually doing homework and playing with her phone.

I was with a couple of my friends just talking, I wanted to say something to her but I didn't know what to say!

How the hell can I go up to her next time and A) Creep her out B) Not look like a fool C) Not come off as desperate

Pretty much whats a good opened end question I could ask her, or just something to say!

It's been a while since I've been able to approach girls!

[King Zarathu]

"Hey! I'm bored so I decided to hang out with you, since you seem like somebody that would make me laugh. Entertain me."

[vashti]

Tell her you will buy her lunch if she can help you with your homework.

[Freeway3137]

hmmm! Well I don't know if Vashti's idea will work since im going for firefighting.... but ill give it a try..

[vashti]

Let her practice being someone you rescue. BTW - girls love firemen. I am sure you know that already.

[King Zarathu]

BTW - girls love firemen.

Man... I know that one "dono" guy....

[Gigabitch]

Man... I know that one "dono" guy....

Different kind of fireman, LOL!

Talk to her, Freeway! She'll get creeped out if you just sit there. Establish yourself as a potential bf right away. If she's that attractive, she's probably met 5 other guys by now. Just keep it real- you have great qualities- just let her see them.

[BFTrick]

I asked this one girl if i could borrow her notes (since i missed a day of class). And then i wrote in her notebook something along the lines of "will you go on a date with me?"

It worked swell.

[derm]

All depends how long the couch is!

If ye are like a foot away say something...anything, just don't sit there saying nothing. She'll get more and more uncomfortable the longer you sit there.

However if you need a P A system or Megaphone to get yourself heard you may be better off saying nothing.



Find something funny to say that involves her or the envoirnment she's in or something she's doing. Once you've broken the ice....get out of there. Give her a break to think about you and what you said..... Leave her wanting more!

You can always come back later when you've thought of something else to say

[vashti]

I think you should just offer to show her your fire hose.

[derm]

I think you should just offer to show her your fire hose.

LOl ROLMAOAV

[Gigabitch]

I think you should just offer to show her your fire hose.

That was the best laugh I've had all week. Thanks, I needed that.

[Venacava]

I don't see why it's so hard! She's human and so are you, you're both sitting in the same place, why not just say "Hey, I'm....what're you studying?" or something! It's not rocket science.

[Junket]

I think you should just offer to show her your fire hose.

I'm assuming that works well with you?

Hey Vash, c'mere...I have something I wanna show you...

[vashti]

Ha! That reminds me that one time when I was about 18, I went with a friend to a fire house while she pretended she was a journalism student conducting an interview so she could flirt with firemen. I was a horrible liar. I couldn't stop laughing.