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    Drama

    I really don't know how to explain this, and I'm not sure I really know what my actual question is... Maybe I'll just spill and wait for comments.

    Basically, I hate drama. I hate drama a lot. But, with woman and relationships, I feel like...I don't know, I feel like I like it. I feel like I need it almost. I posted this in the Ask a Female section because I know woman love drama. I don't really know what my question is, I'm just looking for further learning about myself.

    Any comments? Or, questions might help me come up with the actual question too....
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    I actually know what you mean! You will see it all around you and laugh at how stupid people can be with the shit they put out, but once it comes to you, its like without some major conflict to overcome, it's like what's the use? In past relationships it was almsot like if everything was ok and happy, something was wrong and I would almost try to find something to fight about or argue over just to have some hurdle to overcome to show my stuff... kindof... it is hard to explain really... almost like its more interesting or worthwhile to find the troubled case that you know will end up backfiring and you will regret but I for one will almost always pick that girl over the calm, together, peaceful girl. Dunno why, almost like its more rewarding the more shit you put up with? Hmm...

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    I don't like drama.

    I like conflict.

    There was always some kind of conflict I got to put my resolution skills to use on in my team.

    I miss all that.

    Now I don't have any more conflict to deal with.

    I don't need to make things work.

    My friends here at home, are friends of convenience.

    I'm friends with them because I have things in common with them, because I simply enjoy their company.

    If I didn't enjoy their company, then I probably wouldn't be friends with them.

    My team, like my family, was something I didn't choose. But I had to make it work. And was able to overcome the differences. They conformed to my behavior, and I conformed to theirs.

    It was a beautiful thing.

    Without conflict, without...drama, life would be so utterly boring.

    But life can be miserable if you don't know how to properly, positively, and effectively deal with that conflict, that drama.

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    You'll outgrow it.











    BTW - not all women like drama.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I hate drama. It seems as if there always seems to be some though, at least with my experiences in relationships. I think thats why I choose to avoid them for now.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti
    BTW - not all women like drama.
    Just most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti
    BTW - not all women like drama.
    Pffft! I call bullshit on that one. The amount of space between your first sentence and your second sentence prove that you were considering whether or not to fill my head with a lie, debating the odds that I would catch you. Well, I did!

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    guys are addicted to drama.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    guys are addicted to drama.
    No, misombra. Guys are addicted to you because you're just that good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    guys are addicted to drama.
    Nah, we're just always up for a good fight.

    Bring it.

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    you want some of this frizzz?

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    I don't like drama, at all. Infact I hate it, it's unecessary! I don't know what your question is, sorry!!
    To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love; but then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love; to be happy then is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy; therefore to be unhappy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    you want some of this frizzz?
    Gurl, ya'll ain't got nuffin' to dish out. Pa-lease.

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    ...Oh God!

    [EDIT]
    Oops.... Frasbee is from Philly.

    >.>

    <.<

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zarathu
    ...Oh God!

    [EDIT]
    Oops.... Frasbee is from Philly.

    >.>

    <.<
    I was about to argue that statement.

    But there are people in Philly that talk like that...

    And I'm not talkin' 'bout myself.

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