Support me

[sweetee]

Hi everyone. I haven't been on here for awhile because well things were going fine for me as far as the relationship department. I got back with my ex, and up until this point we were doing okay.

Next month I have to go into surgery for a breast reduction.
With my size six frame, weighing 120 pounds, with 36 DD cups, my boobs do take it's toll on my body.

I've been talking about it with my boyfriend, and I found that he doesn't want me to do it.
So, this morning after I received the call from my doctor, I called him to tell him my good news, and he got really angry, and didn't want to talk to me. He tells me that I'm stupid, and it's stupid...

So, I told him that I don't care if he's mad, I'm still going through with it. Well, it's been about six hours since we've spoken. The last thing he told me, is "I'm not gonna support a dummy."

I know he doesn't agree with it, but all I wanted is for him to support me and be there for me. He says that he loves me, but it seems like everything that I do is dumb in his book. I really love him, but I don't know what to do anymore.

Should I just give up on this relationship?

[vashti]

Yes. Give up. He sounds like a selfish bastard.

[blacksun]

did you make it clear it was for medical reasons and not just cause?

[Junket]

Yeah he sounds like a jerk, he's more worried about how much he'll be able to cup in his hand than your well being.

[Ellynn]

It is your body and he should support whatever you choose to do. Especially if in the long run, it will save you from major backaches etc.

If he can't accept it, then tell him to take a hike.

[Illusional]

instead of removing some of your breast tissue, why don't you have someone remove your bf?? haha you know what you should really tell him, ask him to love your for your smaller breast because you already love him for his little dingaling.

raverboy

[King Zarathu]

"I'm not gonna support a dummy."

Uhh....Who in the hell uses the word "dummy" these days?!

[sweetee]

instead of removing some of your breast tissue, why don't you have someone remove your bf?? haha you know what you should really tell him, ask him to love your for your smaller breast because you already love him for his little dingaling.

raverboy

LMAO! I like that one. I'm gonna use it next time he wants to say something about it.

Thanks guys, I'm ready to give up on this guy anyway. I'm tired of him always putting me down, and yes i did tell him it was for medical reasons.

[vashti]

instead of removing some of your breast tissue, why don't you have someone remove your bf?? haha you know what you should really tell him, ask him to love your for your smaller breast because you already love him for his little dingaling.

raverboy

Heh... you said "dingaling"...

[TAVS]

Please Please dump your boyfriend.