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    my parents..

    im sick of coming home to screaming and fighting and cussing out and anger and hate. i wish i lived in a house where everyone got along and there was hardly ever fighting... i wish i didnt have a stepdad that yelled at my little sisteR(1 year old) and i wish i didnt have parents who were arrogant and selfish even to there own kids.. i wish my mom didnt write bad checks and ask me if i wanted beer. i wish i could go for a walk and not be afraid to walk around in my house. i wish my house had edible food, i wish that people wouldnt treat my brother like shit so he would come home every once and a while(16 years old) i wish i could feel happy and safe at home. i wish my parents didnt smoke around me.

    theres like a million other things..

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    I lived in an environment like that once, you just gotta be the eye of the storm, you know? It'll all work out...

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    The most important thing, Lilwing, is that you recognize that your parents behaviour is negative and not something you want to become.

    Now, you'll just have to figure out a way to steer clear of them until you can leave home.
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    although you have it worse than I did, I can sorta relate. I learned how to become a good person by not acting like my parents.

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    im glad you all turned out to-what seems like- good people, especially you neo.

    i dont want to be anything like them either. i would never treat the woman i love like my step dad treats my mom. nor would i treat my child as my parents treat me or my siblings.

    i sorta have a counselor....

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    Been there buddy, done that.

    Be like me and you're set for life.

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    hey fraz!

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    I've been there, done that, too. I used to have nightmares that my dad was coming to get us and I was the only one that got away. I had these dreams until my early 20's.

    All I can tell you is this: Where you come from doesn't necessarily dictate where you go.

    I wish I could be the Blue Fairy and make everything better........

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