Hey I need advice on this girl

[David12]

You may find this weird, since I am 20 and this girl is 16 but hear me out alright?

Sad to say that I met this girl over myspace. Weird thing though, she kinda came to me first.

This girl had a boyfriend however. But she acted a little interest and always thanked my compliments everytime I gave her one.

I really liked her because she was is really really mature for her age. I don't see that often in 16 year olds. We talked for awhile getting to know each other more and telling about ours day.

Of course, we have been off and on, there are times where I don't talk to her for a few days before getting a respond from her again. After a little while she started having trouble with her boyfriend. That didn't sound good. They broke up a little while after that. She was now single. I have always gave you advice about situations seeing as I have more knowledge than her. I told her that she should take a break from relationships intill she is completely over her ex. She agreed to it.

But now, she has been telling me that all these guys are trying to get with her. she really really like this guy name...Robert. But also told me she probably won't go out to date him yet. It was weird but I had this feeling she was holding back because of me...somehow. I don't know, it just kinda seems like it. I have acted a little Jealous and I shouldn't really.

I finally decided to see her in person. We met at school and talked for a little bit before her parents called her to go back home. We got along well and I know for sure now that she is really really mature.


Recently, I have told her how I felt, I wrote a poem. not a love poem. More like a poem that lets her now that I am interested. A poem that says that I think about her and that I hope she felt the same way about me...

Sadly, it didn't change much of anything, all I got out of it was "That was a sweet poem" nothing more...."


I haven't spoke to her in a few days now. Alot of guys are after her.

So I need to know, what should I do up to this point? how can I forget about a girl I really really like. I need some advice. Thank you

[blauw]

I know how u feel.
And the advice that they gave me :
- Keep urselfs bussy

[bluestrattos]

she clearly see you as a friend and nothing more, everything more than that is your imagination.

You can keep the friendship with her, or you can ignore her and never talk to her again and move forward.

If can't clear your mind and just be your friend, back off.


Good luck!

[Ellynn]

Yeah, I think she sees you as a friend. If she liked you she would go for you.. But maybe its best she doesn't get involved with anyone right now..seeing as her and her bf just broke up. Give her time....maybe she will come around. But in the meantime....keep your options open..

And another thing....even though her maturity level is there.....shes 16. If you were to get involved with her....sex would be off limits until she was at least 18. IF you don't think it will go that far...then that should be no problem.. But just warning you it could be an issue..

[Gigabitch]

You met at school- yours or hers? She might be mature for a 16 year old, but she's still a 16 year old.

You're playing with fire.

[vashti]

jailbait....

[Only-virgins]

Leave the little kids alone, find some one your own size and age damn it people.

[King Zarathu]

I touch small children...

[vashti]

That's because you ARE a small child. Now go play and let the grownups do the talking, sweety.

[King Zarathu]

That's because you ARE a small child. Now go play and let the grownups do the talking, sweety.

Pffft! I'm 6'3" and you're a shorty. Learn to run a treadmill.

[vashti]

Learn to run a treadmill.

This made no sense.

[King Zarathu]

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[hotchick]

HI i think you should be glad you have a decent m8 to talk to and give advice to and agree you will get stick off ppl due to the age of this girl mature she may but i think you will have more fun with someone your own age as she will only be able to do so much because of her age ie; home by a certain time, parents dissaproval,not being able to go to certain pubs or clubs.
it would be a strain on both of you if you were to take it to a bf gf relationship.
there are plenty of girls out there experiment.

[David12]

Well I find this kinda strange....

She hasn't tried to get in contact with me for days now and usually she will message me on msn. But I don't get a message from her anymore. I usually don't message people first....

I just don't know what I did wrong. It happened after the poem though, but she kept telling me she wanted to read it. So I let her see it...

I've also told her..." I am not fit for you because I am too old for you"

I felt like that was a mistake, She did seem interested in me but I felt like I blew it....

I am very depressed now.

[David12]

Some help would be nice