Alright so I (male) just had intercourse with my girlfriend for the first time a few days ago and some incidents occured that have both of us a bit worried. I was a virgin and she was not so I'm a bit more in the dark than she.
First off, we broke the condom and didn't realize till later. I did not finish, but she did. As a precaution we decided she should go to the local clinic and get a morning-after pill (she is not on any pill plan otherwise), they say they are good for 72 hours afterwards.
Earlier in the month (2-3 weeks) we had been participating in some heavy petting and I did ejaculate slightly on and near her vagina. We got a morning-after pill at that time too, just in case.
The nurse at the clinic has heightened our fears by telling us that my girlfriend should have had her period by now (or else very soon), which she hasn't.
I am freaking out...
I know I never finished inside her, we used condoms (so there was some spermacide), and she took a morning-after pill well within 72 hours after each of the two incidents, but i'm still really worried...