it is very hard for me to cum when she gives me a handjob or a blowjob. she has only given me 5 short bjs, and 3 hjs. i only cummed only twice from all of that, both times were handjobs. i usually masterbate really fast, and it only takes about 5-10 minutes for me to cum, and she goes really slow, and it has taken around 30 minutes for me to cum when she did it. is this normal?
i used to tell her it hurt sometimes when she did it, and ithink this discouraged her from doing it. (but it really did hurt, i am almost too big for her, and she can barely help it) but last time i was at her house i asked her to give me a blowjob and she did, and it felt realllllllllllllllly good! i told her this yesterday, n for about 4 hours alls we did was talk about sex n stuff nonstop! she says she likes pleasing me and seeing me go crazy. i told her some things she does that feel really good n when we were done we both wanted to do stuff but i couldnt see her yesterday. so the next time i see her, we wlil prolly end up doing stuff. i wanna cum all over her face and show her how good it feels but it seems like im never going to cum when she is doing it and i like strain my legs and yea..
i just wanna be able to relax when she is giving me a blowjob but i want her to know i like it, cuz she gets up and asks me every 5 minutes if i like it lol, even when its noticeable!