I met someone that is just wonder full. The only problem is that in her word she has had a lot of "fun" basicily she has had sex with many partners like 17 ... maybe about 10 of them one night stands with guys she dated or friends.
When she told me this first thing I thought was basicly what a SLUT ( I am not using a double standard, I would think that of a guy too). I haven't slept around and I don't understand how someone could do that just give them self soo freeling in my own personal humble opion I think it is cheap.
So do you think the number of people she has been with matters that she was giving it out to every tom dick and harry? I mean that is ALOT of partners to have especially for someone who has only been with 2 girls by choice, I had offers but I just didn't feel like having 6 minutes of pleasure and having to put another notch on my belt.
So do I put a black mark on her and and count her out, or do I try to let it go and be with this person.
Do you think I will have the "Chasing amy effect" attack me?