.... are you guys attracted to beauty or personality

[confused01]

i personaly do not like physical attraction more than personality.
i think that personality should match somehow then physical attraction i can adapt myself to it .
is that normal from a girl?i know most of my freind they are attracted to beauty and look more. how about guys? which one do you usualy consider first (beauty , personality)?
thanks

[TAVS]

If you have the best personality in the world -> Friend
If you have the looks to go with it => Girlfriend.

[Tone]

They go hand and hand.

I would never go out with someone I'm not physically attracted to. Sorry, but to me you NEED to be physically attracted to your partner.. I just don't see how it could work out.

On the other hand I wouldn't go out with someone I'm not mentally attracted to, either..

So they go hand in hand. I don't favor one over the other because they are both equally important, to me.

[Sinsemilla]

It's got to be a mix of both.

But let me say that the first real attraction would be beauty, then you get to know someone a little better and then comes personality.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that I wasn't physically attracted to ( that would just be a friend) but I also wouldn't want to be with someone who's personality I don't like.

You can have a stunningly beautifull girl, but very arrogant, I would never be attracted to someone like that, although she's beautifull

So both aspects got to be there in order for me to be really be attracted to someone.

[Only-virgins]

Both.

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[confused01]

which one comes first? personality or beauty

[daisy]

the first attraction is usually beauty and it's just impossible to know personality at a first sight!

[Chlorine]

confused01---------Beauty for the first 2 minutes. After that it's all about the personality.

[confused01]

in my case i give people chance to get too know them i get attracted by their personality the most beauty comes and goes but personality won't. that's what i think.
and same pleople love me for my personality more than my beauty. from my experience

[Chlorine]

confused01-----Come to think of it.....beauty does hold my attention longer. Beauty hides a multitude of sins. I couldn't see a lousy personality even if it shouted at me in the face, because the beauty just blinds me.

Think I need to wake up.

[bluesummer]

Looks are what hook you.....personality is what keeps you around.

So I guess, looks come first. Though only briefly.