It is very, very, very important that you know if your character is suitable for long term living together with the character of your partner.
I wrote a little book about it with a pocket card on which you can see the relationship for "Life Partner', "Parent-Child' and 'Friends'.
Mention the dates of birth (with year and m/f) and I'll give the insight with some good advice, if needed. Bye, Jaap Hillen :?: