boring post warning...

[PandaCivic]

...maybe...
anyways, i didn't have my last class today, so i decided to take a walk at the mall, when i was there i decided i needed to get a new watch so i went to look for watches, and maybe 1 out of 3 people i passed up were really nice looking females!!!! wat's wrong with me? i didn't say hi to a single one!!! being that i was in a mall i was running the risk of meeting jailbait again...but still, i could have just stopped at least one of them and said hello...
jeez i'm gonna kick myself now...

[Innova]

Hey man, think of it like this. Its not like your asking them out, simply saying hi as well as their names almost always turns out well, at least in my experience. It shows them you have confidence, they'll usually tell you their names, nice too meet ya, blah, blah, blah, etc.

See what I mean man, nothin wrong with saying hi. And if they just give the "oh, please" look, not even worth being friends with.

[PandaCivic]

gotcha! i'm gonna have to toughen up a little bit more.

[Pretender]

You shouldn't kick yourself in the butt just because some hot chick passed you by and you wanted to talk to her and didn't. If that was the case you wouldn't stop talking ever!

[PandaCivic]

true, but she wasn't just some hot chick, she was actually attractive. there are tons of hot chicks out there but there are very few that are my "type"

[IceQueen]

*checks navel for fuzz*

Thanks for the warning.

[crabbyqueen]

hey uh.. how do you do that? like actually say hi to someone and then carry on a conversation? I smile at everybody but I never actually stop to talk... but I think I might want to, meeting people is fun.

[sfalexi]

true, but she wasn't just some hot chick, she was actually attractive. there are tons of hot chicks out there but there are very few that are my "type"

Unless you talk to her, date her, and end up liking everything about her, she's not your type. She's a hot chick.

Don't sweat it. If you feel like talking and don't, no big deal. Just try again next time. And if you do and don't get the number, no big deal. It's not like your world will end if you pass up a girl or two. Don't sweat it. When you feel ready to ask someone out, you'll probably do it without even thinking and it'll come out naturally.

THat's how it happened with me. Every girl I asked out wasn't planned, nothing. I found myself talking, then said to myself (in my head), "I think I just asked that girl out . . . let me review my words . . . . yeah. I definitely just asked that girl out." It came out of my mouth so naturally in conversation that I didn't even catch myself doing it. Not suggesting that you wait forever, but just don't worry about it. No need to stress even A BIT over something like this.

Alexi

[GreenTree]

I'd probably never stop and talk to a woman... I mean, it doesn't work like that for me... And there's not a "normal way" to meet women... I just hang with them daily and start to meet them a little better... That's how it works for me... What I'm trying to tell you is that you shouldn't worry about it much...

But that's just an opinion from a guy who believes in destiny... Most people don't...

Regards

[PandaCivic]

i'm one of the few that believe in destiny too. but that might change but i hope it doesn't.

[Pretender]

sfalexi some times I think you are a genius.