I'm 30 and my girlfriend is 32. We recently moved in together after begin together for about 1 year. She was in a relationship / friendship for 5 years and the guy basically just came by to visit her on the weekends for sex and to hang out. When we first started seeing each other she told me about there relationship in casual conversations. Too many details in my opinion. ( shaving before he would come over for sex, doing what ever he would ask. ect...) Most of her relationships have been where her boyfriends have not visited her more than three days at a time per week. She says her life was very busy at that time I love this woman very much and she loves to spend time with me at calls me the perfect man. I am interested in the same things that interest her and we get along great. Lots of affection from her and she really cares about me and my business. My problem is with the amount of sex we are having. It's down to about once a week and she tells me that she wishes that she could be more interested in sex for me but it ends there. I have spoke about this with her on different occasions and it seems to just put more pressure on it than helping matters. She tells me that I am very attractive to her and that I do turn her on. I am always careful to not come across like I am frustrated but it's getting harder to be non judgmental and just distance myself to start having regular sex like it seems she does best at.