...lately i've been posting like crazy but watever...
so i'm "talking" to this one girl now, but i'm "seeing" this other girl, the girl i'm seeing, we both agreed that we'd see each other as long as we aren't seeing other people but once we start seeing or talking to other people our "relationship" goes back to friend status, is it wrong to keep both of them in the same status? not necessarily girlfriend status but just friends with more options. can't help it, i just love women. ha ha.but i'm not like that...
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11-03-04, 01:06 AM #1
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not sure what subject this falls in...
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11-03-04, 01:23 AM #2
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It's dishonest, if you agreed on exclusivity, to see other people.
If you really want to see other people, agree that you're not exclusive.
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11-03-04, 01:42 AM #3
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so she has to agree as well? that's fair enough.
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11-03-04, 01:59 AM #4
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Yes, she has to be fully aware you're seeing other people.
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11-03-04, 02:33 AM #5
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and vice versa too i assume.
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11-03-04, 02:49 AM #6
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yes, but it looks like she realizes that already.
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11-03-04, 02:51 AM #7
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yes she does, i just hope her feelings aren't hurt that i'm seeing someone else and stuff like that.
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11-03-04, 02:55 AM #8
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They will be. You have agreed on exclusivity.
In any case, it's better that you tell her sooner rather than later
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11-03-04, 02:57 AM #9
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whoa, really? her feelings will be hurt? i feel bad now.
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11-03-04, 03:03 AM #10
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Don't. They'll be more hurt if you don't tell her. Or be exclusive with her against your own will.
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11-03-04, 03:08 AM #11
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with that taken care of, is it or will it be wrong to still remain friends? e.g. hang out together once in a while.?
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11-03-04, 03:11 AM #12
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It's not even wrong to date.
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11-03-04, 03:17 AM #13
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even better!
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11-03-04, 11:17 AM #14
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Or you could always say you're keeping the agreement and not keep it. Just be warned that if she sees you on a date with the other girl, it's over. But as long as you're not fooling around with both, there really isn't any REAL harm in it. And later on if you chose the girl that wanted exclusive dating, and you guys run into the other girl, you can honestly say, "I dated her for a little bit."
Just throwing out another option.
I'm saying this because I don't really believe in exclusive dating RIGHT OFF THE BAT. I think it's stupid to limit yourself and put everything you have into one girl right after meeting her. If you get to know her better, and it looks like everything could go really well, then I have no problem with it. But right off the bat I think is stupid. And if you don't want to lie, and want to see this other girl, then stop dating Ms. I don't want to share.
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11-03-04, 04:53 PM #15
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that's a tough one. oh well, i'll just work with one girl at a time...i can't focus on more than two things at once, things blow up in my face.
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