Do you think that I am an a$$hole?

[carpflounder]

I bet he cleans the kitchen after dinner, too.

I'm too nice, huh?

[vashti]

No way. I saw what you wrote about me on the other thread.

[Debunkt]

Okay, I still don't see why people are defending carp. I don't think finding a pipe in your shoe is snooping. Believe it or not, the person you live with may be in your room, and may see it in your shoe. I don't get why you have to hide shit from her. YOU LIVE TOGETHER. At this point in your relationship, there definitely should have been a compromise over this subject. She's not the only one in the relationship, and you should have recognized when you decided to live with her that you can't continue to overreact to everything she does. You ****ing complain about her 1/4 of the time you're on here, anyway. I honestly don't know how this relationship got this far, but I really don't see much evidence that you "love" her as you say you do. You overreacted by tearing up a card, and throwing out a formal apology. And now you just want money, or a gift you can sell for $30? What the fvck?!?! She deserves to be mad at you. Pot seems to control your life pretty heavily, it seems.

I don't even know what to say. This is one of the most ridiculous situations I've ever heard. You rushed into something you both weren't ready for. Way to go.

[Asip4u]

"Do you think that i am an a$$hole?" YES!...and..YOU'RE WELCOME!

[carpflounder]

Okay, I still don't see why people are defending carp. I .

Because I have been treated poorly and they are being supportive.

[Mish]

Is this the same girl that you've been cheating on?

[Rosebud]

Carp I didn't say you were an angel... you Know your not! I just agree it's both your faults. In every relationship there has to be compromise. You do need to realize though when you guys live together there is no hiding anything from one another. And you shouldn't have to if you have a strong relationship.

[missguided.rose]

I'll be sure to tell her that she has been really childish. I'm glad that I'm not the only one who sees it.

HA be sure to let yourself know that you're being really childish too.

[carpflounder]

She dumped me last night when I got home. Dumped me cold.

[Lloyd95]

Why, cause of the pipe thing? Or was there more to it?

[TAVS]

Good for her.

[Rosebud]

OK Carp, what happened? You have to give more detail then that.

[Debunkt]

No surprises there.

[FrenchMaid]

She just came in to my work again. This time I told her that I'm going to have to spend $30 on another pipe..and that for Xmas all I want from her is $30... or at least something that can be sold for $30.

That is the most simple terms I could say it.
She said that when I get home she will give it to me.


I'm still upset.

ssh! she can't get to my stash..don't worry about that.

Hi how are you?
Are you still upset?

So you guy's been living together for how long? Just wondering, did she know how you were before you guy's move together?

I think that you should not hide your pipe from her, you guy's should talk about it, she should have known that you like to smoke it's not fun to live with someone and have to hide your stuff...

You guy's should have some compremise, I am sure that there is stuff that she does that you don't like, does she hide this from you too...that not a good start of a relationship!

I do think that is pretty childish for her to take your pipe and hide it.. she should of ask you why it's there and why you hide it from her unless you guy's talk about it already then if you guy's did well I think that there is a problem that you guy's still have to work on!

Regarding that you are still piss off.. well you have to lay off on that...
You can't stay piss of for ever all it does its just make the situation worst... because look now you don't want to come home and she will get upset..and the you will be upset.. so its a never end story...
and he already try to make it up to you! Right...

Just go home and talk with her.. communication is the best its better then hiding the problem!!!!

[FrenchMaid]

Oh and no I don't think you are an a$$hole at all!

Don't feel bad about what you did, its done, just try to talk and make thing better that all...