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Thread: My girlfriend (used to be ex) never has time for me

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    My girlfriend (used to be ex) never has time for me

    im moving a hour away in 2 weeks...right now im 5minutes away from her

    we just got back together after being broken up for a month so she could get her life together

    things are going great...she says im her everything, she loves me more than anything in the world....tells me everyday she misses me

    but yet it seems like she has NO time for me. today she is choosing to go sleep at her school and hang out with her friends even though she's spent the whole week with them (12-1am every night)

    last time i saw her was a couple nights ago for 2 hours

    since we just got back together a week ago shouldn't she want to see me...especially since im moving 1 hour away?

    im confused by this an its making me want to push away from her. its making me grow anger for her

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    Wow - you sure sound needy. I bet this gets old for her.

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    she's probably mad because you're only moving one mile away. she'd probably prefer that you move a million light years away.

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    my bf says that she probably has another boyfriend.

    also that he isn't liable if you go psycho and kill him/her/them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    my bf says that she probably has another boyfriend.

    also that he isn't liable if you go psycho and kill him/her/them.
    nah she doesn't have another boyfriend

    she goes to an ivy league school and has told all her friends about us getting back together and working things out

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    then what's the problem?

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    She is desensitizing you, when you move, she will break up with you.

    She is trying to be nice, sounds screwed up, but be the heavy, and just dump her. You need to find a girl that enjoys only you.
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    So because she goes to an ivy league school she can't be dating someone else behind your back? Have you talked to her friends or is that just what she tells you? Not trying to be all negative, just asking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Junsui
    So because she goes to an ivy league school she can't be dating someone else behind your back? Have you talked to her friends or is that just what she tells you? Not trying to be all negative, just asking.
    yes i've talked to her friends

    im good friends with her best friend

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    are you sure you didn't mean dopey?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bluevetteracer
    She is desensitizing you, when you move, she will break up with you.

    She is trying to be nice, sounds screwed up, but be the heavy, and just dump her. You need to find a girl that enjoys only you.
    i cut all contact with her before this and she came back. she's excited and happy that i'm moving (she's been making lists for me/what i need for when i move)

    we do have plans for tomorrow (shes working at night) and sunday though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    are you sure you didn't mean dopey?
    i'm a firefighter. we are all dopey

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    Ok, so you know all of this and are telling us how you know she wants to be with you and everything. So, what's the problem? You say you have plans to see each other.

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    ooooh a firefighter. pic please...

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    are you sure you didn't mean dopey?
    LOL!! sombra you crack me up!

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