How many partners how YOU had?

[Junsui]

Oh who cares if you've slept with like 75 people. The number of my friend's brother is in the triple digits, so I'm sure he's a bigger slut than any of you.

[Lloyd95]

Guys can't be sluts; didn't you know about the Double Standard??

[Junsui]

I sure do. I just don't follow that Double Standard and he even calls himself a slut.

[Rosebud]

Wow...haven't reached 75, that's for sure! Although I am in double digits.. I have never had anyone call me a slut, well except for Carp! lol I haven't ahad any one night stands, I just had several boyfriends that I didn't make the right choices with.

[Lloyd95]

Man-slut. tone, hows that sound?

[Rosebud]

Yep. I have a guy friend that is a Man-slut, to be really honest I know he's almost at 100 at the age of 28.

[Junsui]

Oh this guy I know is 23 lol. One of my friends has been with 12 people and another has been with 23.

[Rosebud]

Well I mean if you guys really want to know I'll tell ya, It's not that big of a deal to me I was just trying to avoid the whole slut comment. I'm not ashamed at all because everyone of them I had some sort of relationship with.

[Junsui]

Oh I dont care lol. I was just letting ya know that you're not alone!

[clynn]

BUT.....I'm not ashamed.

And I didn't have a relationshp with everyone of them. Most of them. Not all of them.

I'm not even offended by Lloyd.

Besides, I'm an old bag. 31. I've been active for 13 years. That works out to just over 1 for every year. Course that isn't the way its gone as there has been some longer relationships and some much shorter. And even long periods (ie: 2.5 years) of drought.

[misombra]

i swear we have the same topic over and over again. isn't there a more creative topic related to love, dating, and sex out there or is this it?

[shh!]

There is nothing new under the sun. However, there HAS to be something more creative about sex. Any suggestions?

[misombra]

i have some but people think i'm a slut when i bring them up.

[Rosebud]

eh! Don't worry about them...we won't call you a slut!!

[whaywardj]

Thought this was interesting: [url]http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/PollVault/story?id=156921&page=1[/url]. Says the average number of sex partners is 20 for men and 6 for women. Of course, one has to adjust for men over-reporting and women under-reporting. The numbers related here seemed more realistic to me: [url]http://msnbc.msn.com/id/9574299/[/url]

Didn't see any info in either report from an HIV standpoint. Last I heard, if you have unprotected sex with one person, you're actually exposing yourself to three additional people. So, if any of the numbers you guys are mentioning include an unsafe sex encounter, you need to add those three "phantom partners" to each such encounter and adjust your totals accordingly. Related info: [url]http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/00001277.htm[/url]