So i was super close with this girl for about 4 years. Lets call her girl 1. We were so close, we were practically bf/gfs. (minus the sexual stuff) Anyway, Lately, we have been drifting apart, but like when we used to hang out with a group she would always be with me. But now, shes always talking to everyone else BUT me. I've been quite depressed about the whole thing, cause i liked her for hecka long, and i knew that with one sentence we would have been together, but the fact that i wasn't sure. Anyway, i missed that chance, and aparently its causing me grief. We still talk, but we arn't as close. on a scale from 1-10 we used to be 9. Now we are like 4.
Anyway,to further add to my troubles, apparently a new girl(lets call her girl 2) has taken an interest in me.Now, i'm not a very "hott" looking guy, but i have been told that i am funny, cool to hang around, good listener, respectful, and have lots of good qualities.(Etc.) And most of the girls that like/have liked me, are all really good looking. girl 2 is really pretty, she talks to me alot(she calls like every day) and she constantly tells me she loves me and that we should get together. Now the problem with her is- she flirts alot.
she broke up with one of my friends in the beginning of the school year, and shortly after, she got a new bf.(which lasted about a month). Well, apparently she thinks i'm something different, as personally i think her last 2 bfs are better looking than me but have faggity attitudes.(1st one dumped her, 2nd one she dumped) Nows the Real problem. I'm not really over girl 1, girl 2 wants me, AND my friend who used to be her bf(the one that dumped her) wnats her back. Now i am not a chicken, i have broken about 5 bones, 2 in fights. But i'm not really itching to fight with my friend, i miss my closeneses with girl 1 and my feelings with girl 2 are on and off(probably due to my feelings for girl 1).
I would like some advice on solving this problem. Input would be greatly apreciated. if i didn't make somet hings clear, please ask about it.