I'm an attractive 19 year old guy and I recently met quite a pretty girl at college. At first we didn't really know each other, other than I thought she was cute. Then one of my friends is a good friend of her's and gradually we got to know each other a little better. I wasn't really interested in starting a relationship but after I've gotten to know her more she seems like a very sincere and nice person and we've got quite a bit in common. There just feels something between us because she seems interested in me as well. We are basically friends as of now but seems like it's more than that. I want to ask her out but there's a little thing.
The dilemma is that she's a stripper and I'm worried she may think if I ask her out that that's the reason I approached her. I've heard from quite a few people that you shouldn't date a stripper. But I don't think her job reflects her as a person.
But I don't want her to think that's the reason I asked her out,(assuming I will) because I'm not just trying to get a booty call.
I would like to get to know her better and if I start a relationship, the reason I get into one is hoping it will be something more.
But that's way ahead of where I am now.
Basically I'm interested in a nice girl that I'm friends with and she seems interested in me as well. But she just happens to be a stripper and a little more wild than I am.
Any advice about this?